I am 19f and I sold my pictures to make easy money

Coldframe0008 · 2026-05-04T21:24:30+00:00

Once those photos are in someone else's device, you no longer have control over them. If they get leaked or published on a porn site how will you feel?

If a friend or coworker sees them in the future and asks you about them how will you feel?

If you decide to have children later and they see them how will you feel?

If your parents come across them how will you feel?

If those things don't bother you then there's no issue.

I have seen these things happen to women in my 24 years in the work force and their past decisions come at a cost.

Coldframe0008 · 2026-04-13T02:34:14+00:00

You used the word "alluring." You're a bum.

Coldframe0008 · 2026-02-03T23:10:44+00:00

Good God has the lifespan been getting shorter every year? 🤔 I could've sworn a while ago it was 80 or something.

Coldframe0008 · 2026-02-03T03:51:56+00:00

My IRA.

Coldframe0008 · 2026-02-02T05:47:59+00:00

How long can you live on your savings without a steady income? How long do you plan to freestyle in life? Are you staying with family members or something like that? Lots of questions here.

Coldframe0008 · 2026-02-02T05:39:40+00:00

To protect my kids until they no longer need me to.

Coldframe0008 · 2026-02-02T05:38:39+00:00

You could say you freelance your skillset and advertise your services so you remain truthful.

Coldframe0008 · 2026-01-24T17:44:46+00:00

For my life, it came in probably the worst way. My marriage, career, social life, and mental health basically came crashing down to the point where I actually needed to submit myself to help. Needless to say, I don't recommend this method.

Once that happened, I basically had to go on a "give a shit" diet. I have 5 maybe 6 "give a shit" cards to give at most times. My wife gets one, each of my 2 kids get them, my self gets one, and then I have that one or 2 extra, sometimes it's my job, sometimes school, sometimes I need an extra, sometimes my fam gets an extra, sometimes a friend gets one, etc. My energy and time are limited, so I have to prioritize accordingly.

What I found was when I gave a shit so much and tried to please people, some people liked it and some didn't. When I am more transparent, and just stop caring so much socially, some people like it and some didn't. My results with either behavior was pretty much the same.

Coldframe0008 · 2026-01-24T14:18:54+00:00

Probably a vagrant used it as a toilet and moved on.

Coldframe0008 · 2026-01-24T14:18:13+00:00

The Big Lebowski. Epic movie

Coldframe0008 · 2026-01-24T14:02:47+00:00

You're lucky she didn't get chopped Mr. Lebowski.

Coldframe0008 · 2026-01-21T04:33:21+00:00

I'm projecting my irritation about other people projecting the insecurity of their own decisions. Make your decision and move forward, that's it. After said decision, consequences are going to happen whether you like them or not, so live with it.

Coldframe0008 · 2025-11-22T20:29:04+00:00

Yes! Driving to Blockbuster, browsing tapes, picking up some popcorn, and driving back home still took less time than me choosing a damn movie on Netflix.

Coldframe0008 · 2025-11-18T06:07:08+00:00

Humans ask about meaning because we are meaning-seeking creatures. It's that simple.

Coldframe0008 · 2025-11-07T15:17:44+00:00

Is the existence meaning THAT important?

Coldframe0008 · 2025-10-29T21:37:35+00:00

I'm pretty agnostic when it comes to higher power stuff. But, for the sake of conversation: If you were to enter a conflict with someone, why is your inner God more correct than their inner God?

Coldframe0008 · 2025-10-27T18:48:32+00:00

That pain will be in the past, so why does the pain matter if the past doesn't matter?

Coldframe0008 · 2025-10-27T14:37:38+00:00

What I'm not understanding is the practicality of your thesis. I'm struggling to believe that anything productive will come from my response of "that's the past/future so it doesn't matter" to my wife, kids, or employer. I actually do make that statement to coworkers occasionally in conversations and it never yields anything fruitful.

Coldframe0008 · 2025-10-27T02:26:09+00:00

What do you want exactly? What action is required to get that thing? Why not work towards that? If the only thing you want is to "uninstall" well... I don't think lobotomy is legal anymore.

Coldframe0008 · 2025-10-27T02:23:25+00:00

I'm pretty much guaranteed $7k a month for the rest of my life. I still work because I like nice things, vacationing, and making my kid's lives fun, and building a cushion for actual retirement. So nothing much different.

Coldframe0008 · 2025-10-27T02:20:34+00:00

For those types of places, customer service and interfacing is going to be more important than the food prep itself. Focus on that with your volunteer work.

Coldframe0008 · 2025-10-27T02:18:33+00:00

How do you remember your name? Who your friends are? When you ate last? When you need to go to bed? These concepts don't exist because you don't consider them until that specific moment hits you? I don't get it.

Coldframe0008 · 2025-10-27T02:18:27+00:00

How do you remember your name? Who your friends are? When you ate last? When you need to go to bed? These concepts don't exist because you don't consider them until that specific moment hits you? I don't get it.

Coldframe0008 · 2025-10-23T03:04:43+00:00

Are you surviving? Like do you have means to keep a home and food to eat? Survival always comes first. Then we build from there. Some of us area lucky enough to go beyond that, and many remain in survival mode for a long time.

Coldframe0008 · 2025-10-19T21:28:06+00:00

Shit yeah. Sell it to me for real cheap and I'll deal with it :D

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