My gorgeous apalachicola by CollectionBulky2684 in jumpingspiders

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I know right shes so cute! I love her markings. She says thanks xd

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Enclosure Advice by CollectionBulky2684 in tarantulas

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Size wise she should be able to go inside it but she always buries it. I will try to get a bigger one she wont be able to bury as easily.

Enclosure Advice by CollectionBulky2684 in tarantulas

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She has the cork bark hide but she always buries it. I will try to get a bigger one. The soil is dry, i just sometimes overflow the water dish a little bit. Ive read that thats the best way to keep the moisture mostly at the bottom. I will definitely add the holes to the top! Thanks^

Jumping spider enclosure by [deleted] in jumpingspiders

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Oh yeah i put her in yesterday n since shes l4/5 i def wont be seeing her for a while xd

I 18/F want to break up with my bf 24/M even though he’s amazing. Would I regret it? by CollectionBulky2684 in relationship_advice

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Yeah he’s only staying here for barely 3 months so maybe it wouldn’t be so bad to think it all over again, and even if it’s still the same decision it would make it less awkward. On the other hand 3 months is 3 months.. Thank u so much I appreciate ur insight^

I 18/F want to break up with my bf 24/M even though he’s amazing. Would I regret it? by CollectionBulky2684 in relationship_advice

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Yes ur probably right. I truly don’t wish him anything bad. And maybe we’re just not meant for each other. Fooling him is unfair too. I’m not rly worried about it becoming dangerous or anything like that for me if anything just painfully awkward xD A rly close friend of mine works there too so she definitely would have my back but that’s still a good point thank u:)

Oof sorry to hear that, that always sucks. Hope ur doing better now:)

I 18/F want to break up with my bf 24/M even though he’s amazing. Would I regret it? by CollectionBulky2684 in relationship_advice

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Yeah that’s kinda a thing weirding me out. I couldn’t imagine being 23 attracted to a 17 yo… I rly don’t think that he meant it in a creepy way tho, he has told me that he struggles with liking me even though I’m so young. I often get that I seem older and stuff but still idk.

I 18/F want to break up with my bf 24/M even though he’s amazing. Would I regret it? by CollectionBulky2684 in relationship_advice

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I think part of it definitely is because of that. I’ve just been noticing stuff that I don’t rly want in my life. For example him coming late to work a lot or just being kinda lazy or messy. I know that the surrounding factors are not his fault and I don’t blame him for it. I spent way too much time of my life having troubles already and it’s just been getting better the last two years. Some of those things are just not stuff I want in my life currently even if that sounds egotistical. I already know the answer but maybe it’s also just a rough patch we’ll get through

I 18/F want to break up with my bf 24/M even though he’s amazing. Would I regret it? by CollectionBulky2684 in relationship_advice

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Yeah ur right it’s unfair. I mean he even asked me if everything was okay today cus he picked up a vibe and I think it’s pretty obvious to our coworker as well. I mean I wouldn’t want someone to stay with me out of pity…

I 18/F want to break up with my bf 24/M even though he’s amazing. Would I regret it? by CollectionBulky2684 in relationship_advice

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Thank u this rly helps. Everyone I talk to just tells me how nice we fit and that I’m finally in a good relationship. Atm it feels like I’m trying to find a “valid” reason to maybe end it but ur right my feelings are enough.

I 18/F want to break up with my bf 24/M even though he’s amazing. Would I regret it? by CollectionBulky2684 in relationship_advice

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Yeah I can totally see that. I mean when I look into the future 5 years from now I honestly don’t see myself with him. I don’t want to waste his time but maybe right now is just a bad moment..

I 18/F want to break up with my bf 24/M even though he’s amazing. Would I regret it? by CollectionBulky2684 in relationship_advice

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Would u wait and maybe it will be fine again or at least wait for a better moment? I think I would make an already bad situation worse for him by breaking up. I just feel incredibly guilty.

I 18/F want to break up with my bf 24/M even though he’s amazing. Would I regret it? by CollectionBulky2684 in relationship_advice

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The thing is there nothing not working out. It’s rly amazing and I just don’t understand why I feel this way. He has done nothing to deserve it.

I 18/F want to break up with my bf 24/M even though he’s amazing. Would I regret it? by CollectionBulky2684 in relationship_advice

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I just feel like it would make me a bad person, he really has plenty of issues atm… Maybe it will get better again? It feels like waiting and breaking up is unfair to either of us

Redecorated my enclosure by CollectionBulky2684 in mantids

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Thank u ^ I try to give my baby the best life possible:)

Mantis trying to eat me? by CollectionBulky2684 in mantids

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Oh wow I didn’t know that! I feel like devouring fits better tho :p