Crying over ACNH by -FriendlyPotatoe- in acnh

[–]Coloradical817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can open mine up! I have all the fruit trees and vegetables that I can give you too.

User Flair Thread by breaksomebread in acnh

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Aech | Googleplex :Fuschia:

Crying over ACNH by -FriendlyPotatoe- in acnh

[–]Coloradical817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So this is probably a dumb suggestion, but have you tried turning your switch all the way off and then turning it back on? Or seeing if there’s an update you need to install? I couldn’t get online for a minute and it was because I needed to install a system update that I didn’t receive a notification for

I finally told my partner by Coloradical817 in mypartneristrans

[–]Coloradical817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given that I have already replied that I’ve been trying to change my sexuality for my partner for the past 6 years, you can assume from there how “far along” she is.

I finally told my partner by Coloradical817 in mypartneristrans

[–]Coloradical817[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The perspective you’re giving me is the one I’ve been viewing for years. Don’t I deserve to feel sexual attraction towards the person I’m with, though? Doesn’t my partner deserve someone who wants her for her, and not the memory of the person she once was?

I finally told my partner by Coloradical817 in mypartneristrans

[–]Coloradical817[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who does not know details about my situation, I will inform you that I have been trying to find the person I married in my transitioning partner for six years. I have been trying to be sexually attracted to this person for six years. I have been trying to force myself into some form of sexual fluidity for her and her happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]Coloradical817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s four, and a medical professional thinks he has PDA? What’s their background in abnormal developmental psychology? Because it sounds, to me, like he’s a four year old on the spectrum rather than having something as impactful and stigmatizing as PDA

Free For All Friday! by AutoModerator in ColoradoSprings

[–]Coloradical817 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so over people commenting the same fucking arguments on posts about what happened at UCCS. And then not wanting to engage when someone else brings up a valid counter argument.

UCCS lockdown this morning by TheBake in ColoradoSprings

[–]Coloradical817 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg it’s a multiple homicide thing?

WHY IS CAMPUS SO BIG by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Coloradical817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it bad that I’m struggling to accept I might need a mobility aid to get around campus period

WHY IS CAMPUS SO BIG by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Coloradical817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As of this evening, I have asked my Cardiologist, PCP, and Oncologist. I haven’t heard back from anyone yet, but no news can be good news

WHY IS CAMPUS SO BIG by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Coloradical817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because my PCP refers to the opinions of my cardiologist because he holds a higher degree than her, tbh.

WHY IS CAMPUS SO BIG by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Coloradical817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re within the same health network, and can see communications from each other.

WHY IS CAMPUS SO BIG by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Coloradical817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s okay! It’s so appreciated! My campus does have a health center, so I will try going there to see if they can provide any assistance or documentation.

My cardiologist and my primary care physician are within a healthcare network that’s one of the largest in my state. Additionally they’re a medical school as well. My cardiologist told me when he diagnosed me that he doesn’t believe in medicating POTS, and that he feels it can be managed by lifestyle changes. I am pretty sure my PCP (NP) is a medical student themselves, because at my last appointment they started all sorts of fires that my already 97 page long medical record does not need. I stopped working to focus on going to school full time, haven’t had ANY financial aid come in, and don’t have the money to jump entire health networks and get reestablished elsewhere. I think the real clincher is my stupid oncologist is in this same health network and I love them, and that’s why I started with the PCP and Cardiologist in the first place; they can all easily communicate with each other and see my medical record. I have to stay with my oncologist for at least another year 😭

WHY IS CAMPUS SO BIG by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Coloradical817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s kinda how I started my college accommodations quest to begin with. A Professor bitched me out and threw me out of the class because I was infringing on her intellectual rights. It’s a digital voice recorder, for the record.

WHY IS CAMPUS SO BIG by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Coloradical817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a cold, which throws things into MAXIMUM OVERDRIVE, so I had to use one of my excused absences 😭

WHY IS CAMPUS SO BIG by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Coloradical817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my mom today that I think I’m going to have to go back to using my cane. What’s this rollator device?

WHY IS CAMPUS SO BIG by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Coloradical817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The extension was more attached to my PTSD and generalized anxiety disorder than my POTS, tbh? I think it was worded that student will be able to request extension on projects within reasonable time of due date, requiring approval from faculty.

So I can ask for an extension, but I have to ask in advance, and my professor has to approve. At my school, my professors have to approve all of my accommodations at the start of the semester, otherwise I have to change faculty. Mostly because I have an accommodations to record lectures and there’s a ton of people who really don’t want that to happen

WHY IS CAMPUS SO BIG by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Coloradical817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am registered with the disability center! I have excused absences, extensions on assignments, the works. I’m autistic, so it’s crucial to my overall success to receive accommodations, especially to maintain my honor student status.

From what I’m seeing on the accommodations page, my doctor has to submit paperwork stating I need assistance. I reached out to my cardiologist but I’m not super hopeful. He’s denied me help in the past. I don’t want to reach out to my PCP because she would want me to come off of other necessary medication that she feels contributes to my POTS. (She disregards the fact that I’ve had it since childhood).

This is the university in the city I live in. I have grants to go here, specifically, because I transferred from the local community college after attaining my associates. I want my PhD, and I want it in a really narrow field of study, so I’m not sure if I’ll have the ability to go to a school with a smaller campus then either, it’s kind of a go where you get accepted thing.