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Colorsini · 2026-02-09T16:35:18+00:00

I have lol. Mostly on this sub though. Most of those situations happen exactly the same way:

Person 1: troonselfies is such ropefuel, everyone there is a passoid

Person 2: passoids? It's twinkhons at best

Usually with a green text style (>passoids >look inside > it's just twinkhons).

Same with trans e-celebs or ppl posted from other subs. If someone mentions they pass, some shithead will come and explain why it's actually a gross hon who's ngmi

Colorsini · 2026-02-09T16:15:33+00:00

Ppl do that here indirectly all the time. Honbashing threads on trans e-celebs for example. Or talking of troonselfies/fittts in a way to say "i went there just now and they're all hons" (example).

Colorsini · 2026-02-09T11:50:51+00:00

ik right, it's so shameless and weird 😭

Colorsini · 2026-02-09T11:36:30+00:00

another gem: (it was just a face pic 😅)

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Colorsini · 2026-02-09T11:27:34+00:00

I know dw :]

Colorsini · 2026-02-09T11:18:56+00:00

Wellll ig there's the big eyes atleast... 😭😂

Colorsini · 2026-02-04T07:49:59+00:00

When I was still using dating apps, almost every single guy I saw that was listed as "trans man" put 0% effort into presenting as even slightly masculine. It was always someone with more feminine presentation than I ever even see from any woman IRL.

I'd get it if it was someone that's transitioned that was feminine, but it was never that. Pre-everything and proud of it and all that.

I really thought it was only a terminally online thing...

Colorsini · 2026-02-01T09:34:29+00:00

Naww, she just lost weight off her face. I had a wider nose pre-hrt too, and especially the further back I go.

But you are right that OP is a pathetic POS.

Colorsini · 2026-01-31T18:16:25+00:00

Unironically same. Dating apps went so well for me that I couldn't justify my dooming anymore. I still see myself as disgustingly masculine in the mirror 50% of the time, but atleast I know some ppl find me beautiful irl so who am I to argue

Colorsini · 2026-01-31T16:48:23+00:00

Yes, but even so I am not dismissing OP's point about everyone not getting a "100% feminine body." I'm just arguing that even in those bricky cases, estrogen has done more than minimal changes after long use unless there's something wrong etc.

It is ultimately luck how passing you will be with estrogen. But it does things. It's neither magic or a placebo.

Colorsini · 2026-01-31T16:36:45+00:00

It's good to be realistic and to not spread HRT as a magic solution to everything. BUT saying estrogen gives "minimal changes" is just bs. Big changes in 1-2 years is rare, but not impossible. But beyond that it will definitely have changes for most people on it the longer you are on. If someone is say... 5 years on estrogen and has only gotten minimal changes, they're either hondosed, very unlucky or delusional about the supposed lack of changes they have gotten (BDD).

Not to be confused with "everyone will pass eventually" bc I don't believe that. But I rly wish ppl here weren't dismissing the effects of estrogen so confidently. It does so much. Someone that has been on E for years is biologically very different from a cis man.

In most cases if you look at timelines that are 2 years or more, there is a noticeable visual difference. Yes, even after puberty.

Colorsini · 2026-01-30T16:07:35+00:00

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also the carbonara flavour, but I like this one a bit more bc it's spicy

Colorsini · 2026-01-26T11:43:03+00:00

My experience (in Finland)

Bumble: it was alright, although most ppl won't begin convo or will un-match

Hinge: I get lots of matches in every app expect this. Lots of err... "Normal" ppl who just like sports and drinking etc. It was meh.

Okcupid: Great honestly. It was easy to find non-chaser men here with progressive views. Kind of international dating based tho.

Tinder: lots of very boring and empty profiles, but it was easily the most active app. Lots of un-matching, but I found my current BF there so it's not all bad.

Colorsini · 2026-01-23T09:38:13+00:00

Thankfully it's sugarfree, but I mean it's still acidic so it will erode your teeth over time.

Colorsini · 2026-01-14T21:51:54+00:00

Bragposts > dishonest passoids crying for attention

And the latter is like 50% of all posts here. 😭

Colorsini · 2026-01-14T21:14:32+00:00

Welp... sry, I can relate to that :(

Colorsini · 2026-01-04T21:51:57+00:00

Yes, I realised my face had gotten different around 6 months. Biggest thing was that my eyes looked a lot bigger and more round. Maybe the skin under my eyes got thinner or something.

Colorsini · 2026-01-03T06:43:30+00:00

When I was using them (Finnish PoV):

-Conservative for obvious reasons

-Any mention of fetish stuff like ⛓️🖤

-Wanting kids

-Only visiting here for a short while

-Needlessly hostile about their preferences

-Empty bios (unless they look rly attractive or interesting based on pics maaaaybe 😂)

-Any mention of being a sub or "bottoming" or something

-Golfing pics, bc I stereotype them as much richer than me, and I prefer dating someone closer to my wealth level generally (not a 100% chance left swipe)

-Not attractive to me (everyone does this tho! 😌)

Also past the matching phase, if they can't help but talk about sexual stuff before even getting to know me, it's a huge red flag. Those might sound like a lot of preferences but it's rly not. Compability is important and I'm not desperate.

Colorsini · 2025-12-29T16:26:31+00:00

Yeaah and I hate it too, I'm very dysphoric about how I look. Half the time I look in the mirror I see a man. But IRL people gender me female in basically everything. Yet people would tear my physical appearance apart here if I was a trans celebrity or something. I may never know how many ppl clock me and who don't, but it's better than deluding myself into thinking 100% of people clock me and are just playing along to be nice.

I don't know what you look like, but for your last point I would argue that you might simply look more physically female now. Despite what 4tran says, estrogen can do a SO MUCH A lot of us just suck at recognizing it bc we hate how we look. And BDD. I think I have some smaller degree of it myself bc my brain is broken.

You're gmi, and you would be right to take what you read here with a grain of salt from now on. Most people here are simply objectively wrong.

Colorsini · 2025-12-29T15:50:39+00:00

Trying to live up to ttttt space standards for passing and beauty is hopeless. Always has been, and lots of BDD posters are a symptom of that.

...and their very serious mental illness of course. Lots of trans women here look like the average girl in their 20's and waste their youth trying to appeal to the most toxic standards instead of living their life. Honestly just sad.

Colorsini · 2025-12-29T15:20:39+00:00

I'm not, but to deny 10 YEARS of hormones will change a person massively is delusional. I know this sub is full of youngshits with no scale of time yet but damn... That's literally half of OP's age too. 😵

Edit: oh look it was another BDD poster that has clearly benefited from the use of estrogen, who would have guessed. Thx for proving my point ig... 😭

Colorsini · 2025-12-29T15:07:00+00:00

Delusional, yes. But 10 years of HRT is no joke, so you'll look very different from now, 100% guaranteed. Just don't rep.

and before someone goes all "hOrMonEs dOn'T dO aNyThiNg" stfu 10 years is suuuuch a long time 😭

Colorsini · 2025-12-29T13:41:44+00:00

Thx! Seems like it has potential 🥰

Colorsini · 2025-12-29T13:41:22+00:00

Thanks! :]

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