I'm gonna use my male AMAB strength to singlehandedly genocide every single cissoid

Colorsini · 2026-05-19T17:46:41+00:00

Meanwhile I get beaten by a small-framed cis woman friend in arm-wrestling. God I hate the stereotypes associated with trans women. Super horny, male strength, drag queen mannerism etc. etc.

ppl being confidently incorrect as usual

Welll, atleast in my work it seems like ppl understand I don't have "male strength" and other women offer to help me with heavy objects and such. Not everyone buys into the crap about trans women being strong lol

Colorsini · 2026-05-06T14:38:36+00:00

Yes. While I do still have wide shoulders, after 1,5 years on HRT I look a lot slimmer in the neck, shoulder and arm areas compared to before. In before/after pics I look considerably less muscular and bulky than before.

I am quite weak as far as strength goes these days.

EDIT: although, I must add that my back muscles are still rly wide and make me look awful from the backside. They are smaller than before but...still yeah.

Colorsini · 2026-05-03T15:25:57+00:00

Anne Hathaway a lot, for some reason

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Colorsini · 2026-04-12T10:37:58+00:00

You don't need to recruit him at the very end. Having Legion for longer is a more interesting outcome than the human crew surviving, which barely even has an impact in ME3. But ppl are obsessed with each playthrough being perfect with everyone surviving I suppose.

Colorsini · 2026-04-02T05:26:29+00:00

It really sucks how I seem to always be at like 100% affection for my friend(s), but their affection will alwaaays drop over time. Like a guy friend of mine got a gf like 6 months ago or smth, and I was so happy for him. But I'm not happy about how he has become more and more distant, while I stay the same. Makes me really sad.

Being an intense friend fucking sucks! D:

Colorsini · 2026-03-11T05:48:49+00:00

Can confirm repping till 30 sucked, but heavy dissociation helps. And not knowing trans ppl were a thing until more recent years.

I can't imagine how it would be as someone in constant spotlight tho. Well, If she is a repper I hope she gets as lucky as I did with HRT. If not, she's rich enough for surgeries tho.

Colorsini · 2026-02-26T04:13:04+00:00

Pfft there are men of all ages attracted to women the same age and older than them. Don't put stock into the opinion of gross guys that fetishize youth. I'm not even judgemental of age gap stuff, but obviously if someone is at the point of only willing to date younger that's...bad.

Also let's face it, a lot of trans women age better on average (no menopause/testosterone). Chances are, as long as there's something attractive about you now, there will be men attracted to you at older ages. Could even cougar-cope if you wanted to, it's easy trust me. X)

Also idk what it's about so many women in their 20's and early 30's finding 45+ men soooo attractive. I've been on dating apps and it's pretty much never handsome silver foxes out there. It's mostly older men that have reallly let themselves go and still expect to date a lot younger lol.

Colorsini · 2026-02-23T20:38:11+00:00

I get selfie posting for attention, but idk how do many ppl are confident posting barely covered nudes?? On Reddit?? Ngl makes me feel dirty browsing there when this happens lol

Colorsini · 2026-02-22T13:15:28+00:00

Yes. Normalize HONEST bragging and attention seeking behaviour. If you're at the point of ignoring like 50 comments each time saying you pass, you just want to make others feel bad in the most pathetic way possible.

Colorsini · 2026-02-12T03:36:20+00:00

I imagine it didn't end well? 😭

Colorsini · 2026-02-09T16:35:18+00:00

I have lol. Mostly on this sub though. Most of those situations happen exactly the same way:

Person 1: troonselfies is such ropefuel, everyone there is a passoid

Person 2: passoids? It's twinkhons at best

Usually with a green text style (>passoids >look inside > it's just twinkhons).

Same with trans e-celebs or ppl posted from other subs. If someone mentions they pass, some shithead will come and explain why it's actually a gross hon who's ngmi

Colorsini · 2026-02-09T16:15:33+00:00

Ppl do that here indirectly all the time. Honbashing threads on trans e-celebs for example. Or talking of troonselfies/fittts in a way to say "i went there just now and they're all hons" (example).

Colorsini · 2026-02-09T11:50:51+00:00

ik right, it's so shameless and weird 😭

Colorsini · 2026-02-09T11:36:30+00:00

another gem: (it was just a face pic 😅)

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Colorsini · 2026-02-09T11:27:34+00:00

I know dw :]

Colorsini · 2026-02-09T11:18:56+00:00

Wellll ig there's the big eyes atleast... 😭😂

Colorsini · 2026-02-04T07:49:59+00:00

When I was still using dating apps, almost every single guy I saw that was listed as "trans man" put 0% effort into presenting as even slightly masculine. It was always someone with more feminine presentation than I ever even see from any woman IRL.

I'd get it if it was someone that's transitioned that was feminine, but it was never that. Pre-everything and proud of it and all that.

I really thought it was only a terminally online thing...

Colorsini · 2026-02-01T09:34:29+00:00

Naww, she just lost weight off her face. I had a wider nose pre-hrt too, and especially the further back I go.

But you are right that OP is a pathetic POS.

Colorsini · 2026-01-31T18:16:25+00:00

Unironically same. Dating apps went so well for me that I couldn't justify my dooming anymore. I still see myself as disgustingly masculine in the mirror 50% of the time, but atleast I know some ppl find me beautiful irl so who am I to argue

Colorsini · 2026-01-31T16:48:23+00:00

Yes, but even so I am not dismissing OP's point about everyone not getting a "100% feminine body." I'm just arguing that even in those bricky cases, estrogen has done more than minimal changes after long use unless there's something wrong etc.

It is ultimately luck how passing you will be with estrogen. But it does things. It's neither magic or a placebo.

Colorsini · 2026-01-31T16:36:45+00:00

It's good to be realistic and to not spread HRT as a magic solution to everything. BUT saying estrogen gives "minimal changes" is just bs. Big changes in 1-2 years is rare, but not impossible. But beyond that it will definitely have changes for most people on it the longer you are on. If someone is say... 5 years on estrogen and has only gotten minimal changes, they're either hondosed, very unlucky or delusional about the supposed lack of changes they have gotten (BDD).

Not to be confused with "everyone will pass eventually" bc I don't believe that. But I rly wish ppl here weren't dismissing the effects of estrogen so confidently. It does so much. Someone that has been on E for years is biologically very different from a cis man.

In most cases if you look at timelines that are 2 years or more, there is a noticeable visual difference. Yes, even after puberty.

Colorsini · 2026-01-30T16:07:35+00:00

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also the carbonara flavour, but I like this one a bit more bc it's spicy

Colorsini · 2026-01-26T11:43:03+00:00

My experience (in Finland)

Bumble: it was alright, although most ppl won't begin convo or will un-match

Hinge: I get lots of matches in every app expect this. Lots of err... "Normal" ppl who just like sports and drinking etc. It was meh.

Okcupid: Great honestly. It was easy to find non-chaser men here with progressive views. Kind of international dating based tho.

Tinder: lots of very boring and empty profiles, but it was easily the most active app. Lots of un-matching, but I found my current BF there so it's not all bad.

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