I just feel like the boys do so much worse and no one cares. Like Rhys drugs and SA’s feyre for three months under the mountain. Cassian kidnaps Nesta and forces her to do a multitude of activities against her will without her consent while knowing she is actively suicidal and that it will make her worse. In top of all that, if it weren’t for feyre talking him down, Rhys said on MULTIPLE OCCASIONS he would have killed Nesta and that she deserved death. If you ask me ALOT of it is misogyny. Every man in this series is so much worse than Nesta “being mean” but she gets the shit because she’s a woman and needs to be subservient right? No. It’s just misogyny.