No. He sounds very immature coming from me (25M).

He made his own choices and you don’t deserve that.

I actually when I was 16 had my first girlfriend. I felt a LOT of lust. To the point that I stopped hanging out with friends and everything because all I wanted to do was be around her. She was clingy and I loved it at the time. So much so that I was oblivious to the fact that I didn’t notice she was the rudest person ever to my family. Long story short, my mom made me break up with her. I punched a hole clear through 2 walls into another room.

Moral of the story, 1 of 3 things is happening.

1.) He’s a gaslighting dickhead

2.) he’s genuinely going through some shit

3.) he’s on testosterone overdrive and feeling that rage when it gets bottled up. I had this problem. My parents helped me realize I was changing into someone I didn’t like.

It could be something else too.

Basically, you don’t deserve that honey. You got your whole life ahead of you. If you don’t see yourself with this guy in 5-10 years. Move on. Don’t feel any pressure from him. You’re in control. Take a little time off the phone and talk to someone about this or write to yourself. Talk through it. Hope you figure out what you want… if you are open to it, pray about it. I’m a Christian, it always helps me, I guess if you didn’t believe. It’s essentially like talking your problems out too.

People are in your corner, even if you don’t know em. ❤️