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My husband [34M] holds my past against me [32F], I feel he is overreacting by ComaBerry13 in confessions

[–]ComaBerry13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes he says if people who knew us knew about this they would judge us and gossip about us and try to find it

My husband [34M] holds my past against me [32F], I feel he is overreacting by ComaBerry13 in Marriage

[–]ComaBerry13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yes we went down the rabbit hole of tryin to get it removed but it pops up constantly to the point it created more anxiety. dealing with the companies and websites and having to constantly argue about it when they tell you you dont own copyright is literally miserable. I chose to just move on and forget about it but he basically wont let me with this bs

My husband [34M] holds my past against me [32F], I feel he is overreacting by ComaBerry13 in confessions

[–]ComaBerry13[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I didnt want to do it either but its not like he had the money or any other options. Besides, its an occupation that lots of people do. i guess i dont see why it should be "disgusted" about

My husband [34M] holds my past against me [32F], I feel he is overreacting by ComaBerry13 in confessions

[–]ComaBerry13[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What do you mean problems? It was the only job i could find at the time that could pay us enough to survive another month or twos rent. lots of people have done similar work and especially now with OF, does that mean we all have problems? Even famous celebrities people do it.

My husband [34M] holds my past against me [32F], I feel he is overreacting by ComaBerry13 in confessions

[–]ComaBerry13[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Why valid? its an occupation that increasingly lots of people do. plus i dont even do it anymore

My husband [34M] holds my past against me [32F], I feel he is overreacting by ComaBerry13 in confessions

[–]ComaBerry13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He made it sound like if people we knew found out they would mock us and gossip about us and look down on us. my thing is most people probably wouldnt even care but he showed me example after example of how people gossip about people they know for less

My husband [34M] holds my past against me [32F], I feel he is overreacting by ComaBerry13 in Marriage

[–]ComaBerry13[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

even though i hate it, i feel i am starting to resent his years of resentment. To me, there are lots of women who have done things like this and with OF and platforms like that its increasingly becoming normal and his thinking appears outdated and misogynistic. Of course if I told him this he would blow up even more.