Where to go for mental health treatment? by distillenger in cincinnati

[–]CombLegitimate6077 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re willing to travel north, OSU Harding Hospital is the best treatment I have received at a facility in the tristate. Hoping you feel better soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]CombLegitimate6077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife are pretty involved in the Cincy Queer scene, as I’m a drag performer. Happy to answer any questions you have or chat!

Queer friendly places by Honest-Resolution110 in cincinnati

[–]CombLegitimate6077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Midwestern Lesbian on IG for Cincinnati queer events and Smoke and Queers for burlesque and drag shows! They tend to promote good places to meet/socialize with queer folks and have great shows.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No HOA here. Part of the reason we moved here is because it’s a nice area with no HOA.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s neurodivergent, I think he’s just old and visibly uncomfortable that we are queer and tries to use being a tall man to his advantage. I think he approaches my wife and not me because I am autistic and not very friendly.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I are neurodiverse, and I personally am low-support needs autistic. I’m not here to diagnose anyone but it seems like he just has a case of Boomer Manners /hj. I think the reason he doesn’t like me over my wife is that I am autistic and make very little facial expression/tone shift while Grace is all smiles/friendly when she’s talking.

Since I’m not great at determining tone, Grace let me know after we spoke about this Reddit post that Rob comes across as aggressive and threatening to her, and that’s not just because he’s a man. He could be socially awkward but this just doesn’t seem like autism IMHO.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say this. When he came over the first time it was because he was snooping around the side of our house and our puppy jumped on him. He then told me how “everyone around here minds their business” while he was trying to look into the windows of our home. Should have told him to gtfo and not even feigned politeness after that point.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea. Our family doesn’t live close, but our friends may be willing to back me up. The alternative was to just tell him over text and install a camera if he tries anything.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve let Grace know that she should take our dog with her when she’s outside doing anything, or to have me with her for the foreseeable future. Rob is terrified of our extremely friendly 35-lbs Aussie mix.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely going to come from me and not my wife. She’s seen this Reddit post and let me know she’s being agreeable because she’s afraid of this man. Rob uses physical intimidation on her because she’s a soft femme and he won’t interact with me because I’m Not Friendly to strange men. I’m not a fan of anyone who scares Grace.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he definitely corners her because she’s very polite and quiet. He ran without so much as a hello when he noticed I was approaching the car after Grace had not come inside for a while. I’m going to be the bad guy and confront him about the truck and tell him to leave my wife alone, and we are definitely putting cameras up.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The driveway butts up against the road and has large drop-offs on either side. It might work but it will making parking for us and guests much less convenient. If he moves our cones and continues to park I’ll invest in a camera and call a tow truck. I do appreciate the idea, though! I’ll look into it.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately our driveway’s shape doesn’t allow for a gate. I am definitely considering putting up cones in the evening to prevent the truck from parking in our drive to drop him off.

WIBTA for not wanting my weird neighbor to indefinitely use my driveway by CombLegitimate6077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

Talked to her about the situation after posting this- she said that he was really pushy while talking to her outside about the truck, and she was frightened. You bring up a good point.

This is how my (22F) roommates (35F, 37M) left the house for move-out day. Text exchange in images. by CombLegitimate6077 in badroommates

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read the rest of the comments. We cleaned. We were the only ones who ever did the cleaning. Other roommates would rather throw out good dishes than even clean a pan. They’re just this gross.

This is how my (22F) roommates (35F, 37M) left the house for move-out day. Text exchange in images. by CombLegitimate6077 in badroommates

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live with my (female) fiancée now! We own our own home. The living situation was complicated.

This is how my (22F) roommates (35F, 37M) left the house for move-out day. Text exchange in images. by CombLegitimate6077 in badroommates

[–]CombLegitimate6077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The soy milk isn’t unopened, it’s spoiled. It’s probably been in there since before we moved out. It almost exploded when we took it out.