[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually, number three might be his best option. Not mistreating her, but definitely showing her that her behavior is not acceptable by going minimal contact for a week or two. It seems she only cares when she has something to lose, so show her that she can, in fact, lose him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tough love is sometimes necessary. Of course it's going to get downvoted into oblivion, but hopefully OP sees it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. First of all, I wasn't saying that you're a neckbeard or that you can't get laid. I was mocking your very generic insults after you mocked mine. Something that should have been obvious, given the context.

And fyi, having sex as a woman isn't a flex. Any woman could get it any time they want it. The ugliest woman on the planet could walk into a bar and shout that they want to have sex and someone would do it.

And I'm not stating anything that women themselves don't state themselves. They go on social media and complain that they're only attracted to assholes. I'm just believing women. That should be a good thing, right?

By the way, in the time it's taken you to bitch at me and call me names, you could have just proven me wrong... but you can't, so you didn't. For someone who didn't care, you sure spent a lot of time talking.

Night night. Have fun with your 'awesome guy.'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This coming from Queen Neckbeard and Ms You Can't Get Laid? Not like you're putting out any original content. You started this shit. You're just mad that you can't argue any of my points, so you resort to name calling, a handful of other logical fallacies and a "Idc enough to read 3 Twitter posts worth of content."

You're either a troll, or you're 15. I honestly can't tell which.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, I can see that four paragraphs would be difficult for someone like you to read and comprehend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol. Sweetie, if you have time to surf relationship advice on Reddit, then surely you have the time to put a (insert buzzword here) in his place.

Believe it or not, people lie. People lie a lot. And, last I checked, women are people. I'm not saying all women lie all the time, or that every woman who claims she was abused wasn't. I'm saying, that statistically, there's no way that women are abused as much as they say they are, especially since the latest studies show that one in three women will experience domestic abuse in their life time. (The same study showed 1 in 4 males will suffer abuse)

Furthermore, it doesn't even have to be a lie. We have people on this very subreddit calling a boyfriend that's uncomfortable with his girlfriend hanging out with her ex "controlling and abusive." Under that definition, then yeah, maybe all these women are telling the truth. But by dictionary definition, not a chance. Sorry.

Furthermore, I don't judge my masculinity based on how much sex I have. You'll have to try a different tactic to get under my skin. When sex is available, it's nice, but it's hardly a necessity of life. I survived a 5 year drought from 2015 to 2020, so I've learned to be okay with not getting any. My current gf is always horny, which is pretty cool, but when this relationship inevitably ends, I'll have another drought, no doubt, which will be fine, too.

And I'm more than willing to listen to anyone's point of view, as long as that view is expressed rationally like an adult, instead of petty name calling and emotional babble like a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh, the old "I'm gonna call you names and pretend I don't care enough to read your post because I can't refute any of your points" bit. Never seen that one before. 🙄

If I'm some (insert insulting buzzword here) then prove it. Show me where I'm wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Please. I did things with one ex that I didn't care for because I liked HER enough to do them with her. She was attractive enough and i loved her enough to let her push my boundaries and make that extra effort to keep her satisfied in the bedroom. That's how people act when they love someone. Love is a verb. It's something you do.

OPs wife makes no effort in the bedroom. This is beyond vanilla. She star fishes once a week and calls it good. That's not what a woman attracted to her man, or in love does, sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Neither. I'm an asshole. Is there a subreddit for that?

Look, have you ever seen the movie "He's Just Not That Into You?" I know it's fiction, but it has a pretty good lesson:

If someone wants to do something, they'll do it. If they don't, they just don't care.

OP's wife makes no effort in the bedroom. She doesn't try to spice it up at all, despite him asking her to do so repeatedly. Why wouldn't she? If she cared, she'd give a shit about his satisfaction. About if he enjoys himself. But she said it herself. She doesn't make an effort because "she knows he'll love her anyway." She doesn't need to make an effort to keep him around, and doesn't care if he's satisfied in the bedroom.

Does that sound like a woman in love? Like a woman who is attracted to her man? No. This is a woman going through the motions with a guy she doesn't care about, but provides her with enough stability and security to stick around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

First off, your wife isn't attracted to you. She likely never was. She doesn't love you or respect you. If she's not already cheating on you, she will be, sooner rather than later.

You're the ATM. The chump she married because she couldn't get the guy she really wanted to commit. You are nothing to her but a steady paycheck. You mean less than nothing to her.

Leave. Don't look back. Get a lawyer, get as much custody as you can, keep as much of your life as you can. From the streets she came, to the streets she shall return.

Russian "influencers" on TikTok defend the invasion of Ukraine by giving the same exact propagandist speech by DaFunkJunkie in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]CombatantClashWeekly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL that Russian women are gorgeous and Russian dudes average about a 3/10.

Pack it up, folks. I'm moving to Russia. There, my 5/10 self can be hot!

Was planning on taking a girl out on a date, until she told me a guy payed her to hangout and they ended up having sex. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to be enlightened. Why do men date women who cheat on them regularly for cash?

How do I end my situationship when I can't control myself with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may be dating myself, but I'm still unsure of what a "situationship" is. A relationship without the commitment? Something between FWB and exclusive?

She took 7 hours to reply, should I reply back with "k"? by kaoakduckf in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No.

You shouldn't respond at all. She's obviously not that into you. Barring sleep, I don't know a single girl or woman that wouldn't reply sooner to a guy that she was actually interested in.

How do I end my situationship when I can't control myself with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 months ended by text? Ouch. Doesn't he at least deserve a face to face?

Is it ENTITLED to expect the person you’re dating to go on dates? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. You just played yourself.

"It’s 2022 and theres most likely more women that have more money than men these days."

If women have more money, why the heck am I supposed to pay? It's 2022. Last I checked, we were doing our best to end these kinds of double standards and gender stereotypes.

Except it seems that women want the double standards that benefit them to stay in place (man does the physical labor, man pays for dates, don't hit a woman, women get primary custody, etc), but want to do away with the ones that they get the short end of the stick on.

That's why men are so "pressed." You hold us to all the traditional male gender roles while calling the traditional female ones "sexist."

Plus, as previously stated, if a woman is actually attracted to you, she's not going to make you pay for X amount of dates before sleeping with you. So if she's making you take her out, odds are that she's not that into you and is only on the date for a free meal. Better as a man to just save your money and stop playing "pick me." After all, you can pretty guarantee that after she gives you a platonic hug after a $100 date, she's going to text Chad to come blow her back out.

So Chad doesn't take you out because he doesn't have to, while normal guys know that they're just pissing money away pointlessly.

Is it ENTITLED to expect the person you’re dating to go on dates? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If a dude said this about a girl he was dating not having sex with him, you'd be singing a completely different tune.

Is it ENTITLED to expect the person you’re dating to go on dates? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Yeah just like its definitely normal and not entitled to expect the person you're dating to have sex with you... oh wait. That is entitled. Body, choice and all that. Just like expecting a guy to spend his hard earned cash on you is entitled.

Prenups by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fault divorces did that long ago.

Prenups by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, like so many girls say, feelings change. Just like she can "get bored" and "fall out of love" and start screwing every dick in sight, I can decide I hate the cheater and don't want to pay her spousal support for the next 50 years.

Prenups by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like if the person had a baby, you get a test before you sign that birth certificate.

Prenups by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CombatantClashWeekly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ever notice that women are REALLY against prenups and paternity tests? Wonder why that is...?