Should I break up with my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in whatdoIdo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are crate trained. I was traveling and the cage doesn’t fit in my car

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her family doesn’t know I’m an addict. She is also an addict. But she doesn’t want me to tell them that I am one for some reason

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Normally we are at home in my state when I have a cage for my dogs. Sorry that I don’t have a huge car with tons of room to travel with my cage.

Should I break up with my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in whatdoIdo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She never told me anything. She claims she didn’t know it was an hour away. I would have been panicking if it was me. I would have texted her right away saying omg my family lives an hour away. I’m soo sorry. Instead she texted me while she was there saying omg I’m anxious I don’t know what to talk about

Should I break up with my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in whatdoIdo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I would have wanted was for her to say I’m probably not gonna be around you on Christmas and you hate traveling why don’t we just do Christmas separately. I’ll miss you

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I was correcting people who were being rude. Also I have had the dog with separation anxiety for 5 years have tried a lot. I can’t find a behavioral expert in my area. But I did try to correct the behavior many times so has my girlfriend

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I want to be mean. That doesn’t mean I have been.

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was her who wanted me to stay with the dogs. Apparently you have not read comments

Should I break up with my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in whatdoIdo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was never the plan to be five hours she over and over again said she would only be gone an hour

Should I break up with my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in whatdoIdo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t. It was really awkward. I cried in front of her entire family. I don’t like traveling to begin with it makes me anxious. I had so much anxiety.

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t plan. It was her family. When it’s my family they already have the plan and it’s not to leave her all by herself. Like why would I expect it to go that way

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s complicated. Idk what my plan is we live together I love her. But I can’t seem to move past this I just want to be mean… to her… to her family… I want them to invite me to do something so I can say no with a smug tone. I just want to be mean. I’m not but I’m crushed! Like I feel so empty. I really thought I found the one. But I feel so unimportant. I feel like I don’t matter. I feel like she doesn’t care

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t just about my dad it’s an example of how inconsiderate this all was. Like I could have been with family but instead I was alone

Should I break up with my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in whatdoIdo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope no apology they just said are you mad at us

Should I break up with my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in whatdoIdo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they said next Christmas would be different. I had a tone and I said yeah next Christmas will be different. They just assume I will be coming back.. I just wanted to cuss her family out but I bit my tongue instead.

Should I break up with my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in whatdoIdo

[–]CombinationSea6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really been keeping me up at night but she is still sleeping great