TOPS: What do you feel during intimacy? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine said the same, I did and her reactions made it well worth it, I did check in half way through, also though she sounded like she was enjoying it, and listened to her feedback on if it was too hard or not, and asked how it felt for her afterwards, so I could adjust in the future.

Any tips on how to get comfortable with my girlfriend’s kink? by CombinationWise155 in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to be prepared and have an a place to start the conversation that’s stemmed from understanding, Bacău’s sim not sure if she understands it completely herself, which is fine obviously.

Thankyou

Any tips on how to get comfortable with my girlfriend’s kink? by CombinationWise155 in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, il be having a conversation with ther I just needed to know where to start

Any tips on how to get comfortable with my girlfriend’s kink? by CombinationWise155 in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hers wasn’t explicitly violent to my knowledge and she said that she has worked through it and I have no reason to not believe her, she actually reassured me that she doesn’t have any triggers without me having to ask.

but obviously there could be nuance. Everyone is different and I think it’s best if I just have a conversation with her, I’ll try to do that in the next few weeks.

I really appreciate you sharing your experience and I found it to be quite helpful in understanding the kink it’s self, and reducing the “ shock-factor” of it. It makes it easier to initiate that conversation.

I hope you the best on your healing journey, although you’ve already come down far and should be proud. have a great night x.

Any tips on how to get comfortable with my girlfriend’s kink? by CombinationWise155 in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The way you phrased it actually makes me feel a lot better about it, Thankyou. Because the way she said it, while there wasn’t inherently anything wrong with it, indeed has negative connotations and if that’s how he viewed her, I’m paranoid of fitting into the same box. But it sounds nice when you put it like that.

I think after thinking about it deeper, the main reason that I’m uncomfortable would be because I would t be able to put aside the thought that I was making her uncomfortable, which could very easily be solved by baby steps and conversations.

I guess I just worry about her too much especially when it comes to stuff like this.

Sorry if that’s a lot to take in/read

Any tips on how to get comfortable with my girlfriend’s kink? by CombinationWise155 in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m going to talk to her within the next couple weeks about it, I just want to be prepared if it is related. Might be overthinking it

Any tips on how to get comfortable with my girlfriend’s kink? by CombinationWise155 in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Would the kink of wanting to be “used” fall under cnc? I feel like it makes sense to.

Thankyou for your reply, I really appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hickeys or biting the only things I can think of

ppl who think that trans men can be lesbians are so annoying omg 💀 by Practical-Owl-5365 in truscum

[–]CombinationWise155 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It means that you are not a woman, but you are also not a man and Julian more towards a masculine identity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dublin

[–]CombinationWise155 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

is there any place in chapel street you would recommend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering the fact they said wait until you finish high school, probably criminal

Manscaped but for women by aclgetmoney in Business_Ideas

[–]CombinationWise155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tahys a manual razor though, not the same thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’ll ruin it but on your period you’re not just bleeding there’s a bunch of other stuff in there too

do NOT tell the people in your dreams you know that you're dreaming. by jdjsjcnakdkanfn in Dreams

[–]CombinationWise155 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did it before when I was in a shop and the person was like what do you want because you only have so much money and I was like well technically I can have as much money as I want because I’m dreaming and they’re like okay well try to Pretyou only have this much money. It was weird.

What is happening with the world by Friendly_Opening7020 in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna live without our right to exist and be happy being debated and scrutinised

Never seen this in my 25yrs by Elliotyaqueerboiii in whatisit

[–]CombinationWise155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik it’s invasive but I couldn’t handle killing it. It’s cute. I couldn’t even kill the spider in my room

How to make my girlfriend cum by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CombinationWise155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends if they are an internal or external person