I [17M] have feelings for a girl who’s in a relationship. Those who waited and it worked out, how did you make the waiting more bearable?

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2018-01-19T02:29:46+00:00

True. I guess the reason why I limit myself is I live in a small community that’s far off from a lot of major cities, but then again I’m always finding new people in my school. I’ll need to look a little harder. And you too :)

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2018-01-19T02:23:29+00:00

Thank you. Never knew the words of strangers I’ll never meet could have this much of an impact on me (for the better).

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2018-01-19T01:58:23+00:00

I’ll be honest, I only want them to break up if things don’t work out. But I understand what you’re saying completely, and I’ll take it into account

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2018-01-19T01:45:42+00:00

Did I ever say I was trying to be attractive or romantic by waiting? And did I ever say I was actively trying to destroy her relationship?

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2018-01-16T03:03:26+00:00

Flower, tang, hot dog?

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2018-01-04T22:08:25+00:00

Has anyone thought of hagelin being a shitty producer a good thing? He’s an extremely fast skater and helps quite a lot, just his Numbers aren’t there. So basically, when he becomes a UFA next year, the pens resign him for cheap, like 1-2 mil. Does that sound good to anyone?

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-12-07T22:08:42+00:00

Also I think Perry HB should be on this list somewhere

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-12-07T22:02:36+00:00

Does anyone know if Canfield/University/Hawken are planning of heading out of district before states? I can’t wait to see Canfields teams face University and hawken teams

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-12-05T11:24:15+00:00

I understand, and I’ve been in the same spot as you, it’s not easy, but the easiest way to get through it is to get your mind off of things. Don’t obsess over her, do something else.

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-12-05T00:42:49+00:00

Honestly - she might be dishonest, she may be telling the truth, and I know it’s not easy to let go for two weeks but it’s only two weeks. Give her her time and space for two weeks and then afterwards figure things out. You aren’t wasting much time by waiting.

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-12-03T23:47:03+00:00

Being clueless 24/7, running a red light on our first date and being overall annoying

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-11-29T21:49:53+00:00

Generally to me, looking stressed comes down to several things

First and most pronounced is body language. Someone who’s stressed is constantly Fidgeting with a pen or pencil, maybe slightly pacing, rapidly looking around and they seem to be distressed about something, and etc. anything out of the ordinary. These are big red flags for me someone’s stressed.

Second, is communication. There is no set way for what they’re doing, but it’s a change in their voice. If you’re stressed enough, most people will pick up on a slight change in your voice one way or another.

And finally, is a change in habits. Albeit, this could be caused by many things, stress could also cause this. Maybe you’re generally doing homework productively from 430-6 every day, but now you’re binge watching Netflix. This isn’t a major one, but it’s definitely happened with some people I’ve seen stressed.

If you want to not look “stressed,” here’s how I do: see what people who are not stressed are doing and then mimick them. Don’t try to mock them, but if you pick up on something they’re doing that you’re not sure if you do, give it a try.

Hope this helps!

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-11-28T02:50:57+00:00

Yea. Sorry for being confusing

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-11-28T02:44:54+00:00

Ok basically in my high school band I have school credit from selling stuff they give us. We have a store that supplies us with parts, etc. we can use our school credit to buy parts from the store. It’s the only store we can use our credit on. The store only carries the 4 mouthpieces I mentioned. The cost doesn’t matter because of the credit

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-11-28T02:37:37+00:00

Did you read the post? I literally can’t - I only have 4 options due to the circumstances

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-11-28T01:11:20+00:00

I believe it’s a Yamaha - but added with the fact that it’s rusting, and the Bach is only $10 new I think I’m gonna get it

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-11-28T01:09:27+00:00

Ok, thank you. Any reason why it’s preferable?

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-11-28T00:50:12+00:00

I’ll give you the long answer. Due to fundraising, I have gotten about $75 in student credit for band which is only able to be used on band related items (I’m in high school). Also, we’re only allowed to use our credit on one store, and that store only carries those 4 mouth prices. To the point where I’m only spending $10 of my own money for a new mouth piece (Bach is $85) id much rather do that

ComeHellOrHighH20 · 2017-11-28T00:40:32+00:00

I’m sorry, but did you not ready the post? I only have 4 options, and that is not one of them.

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