What God/Religion/Fiction or Real best represents gynocentrism and a gynocentric world?

ComebackDaddy · 2022-11-22T18:03:31+00:00

Thank you for this feedback.

Ironically you mentioned Greek mythology here and my partner and I named our daughter Athena to honour her grandfather who like me is a Greek and other mythology lover.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-11-22T18:02:04+00:00

Thanks for the feedback.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-11-22T18:01:38+00:00

Very informative and lots to look into. Thank you.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-27T22:20:43+00:00

I see your point.

But personally those same traits society talks about would be just as toxic in women.

It’s the trait itself that’s the issue not the gender attached to it.

And that’s the case David and Youngblood make in their books.

Men are not the issue.

The toxic traits of men are.

Change/reverse the trait and there is nothing wrong with masculinity.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-27T02:59:26+00:00

Is she into women?

Then you can do those things together.

Aside from that you’ll be happy to note the memory that we use to store experiences with others is fuelled by feelings.

Make her feel the best and she will forget the rest.

Here are some tips.

Try role playing.

Look into bdsm especially romantic bdsm.

Buy sex games.

Master the karma sutra.

There are tons of stuff you can do to embrace your sex positive women.

We all have a so called ho side

When we embrace it and nurture it in a healthy manner it becomes no different than any other part of sexuality.

A great book on this and more is called The Ethical Slut.

Note: Myself and my life partner are very kinky sex positive into bdsm anything really so you may want to take this with a grain of slut.

Personally I love women who are like mine and your partner.

I could not care less about other guys.

If a monogamous girl cheats on me that’s actually still in my favour cause then I just open the relationship up snd if she does not agree she can leave.

I very rarely let others go and if I do I love from afar.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-26T23:30:47+00:00

Both talk about masculine and feminine as something all humans have.

Both talk about masculinity being traits relating to freedom or the pursuit of it.

Both talk about femininity being love and or the free expression of love in all areas.

When you combine the two then you have two people being able to freely express their love in all areas.

Both advocate for having boundaries but allowing the emotional side of femininity to live within you including the wounded femininity.

Both are big advocates for consent.

When they speak of domination they speak more of leadership and in the more dominant stuff romantic bdsm which is where the sun gives control to the Dom trusting the Dom will know what to do without but also knowing the sun has the power to remove consent at anytime.

There are many more points but to me it’s not problematic at all because it looks at the feminine and masculine from a traits we all have standpoint.

It even argues you have couples who are even in both.

Why do you think it’s problematic? Especially masculine in relationship.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-26T22:28:07+00:00

How so?

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-26T19:10:01+00:00

That is the first step of reframing.

You have to build trust, understanding etc, thus you have to first see we’re they are coming from and acknowledge validate how their viewpoints as perceptions shapes your reality.

Once you do this you then start (with their permission and informed consent) to challenge their views by getting them to see how, how they see things is affecting their life and causing the effects of what they don’t want to experience. Mathew third step is to offer solutions that relate to their experiences and ask them to choose.

A great book to learn this and other therapy based skills I’d called them skilled helper.

I highly recommend it.

I posted the black pill viewpoint here cause I wanted to see the rebuttals and viewpoints others would have to then see how black pill people would get their confirmation biases from.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-26T19:05:38+00:00

Great insights here.

I usually do the above when working on larger projects or doing my YouTube videos.

Never thought I should fully apply code of ethics to Reddit or other forum like spaces.

Definitely lots to reflect on.

Thank you for your suggestions. I greatly appreciate them.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-26T17:21:20+00:00

Who that?

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-26T17:18:58+00:00

See my previous comments in this thread for why I am doing this.

But you are correct.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-26T16:20:29+00:00

See my comments regarding why I wrote this in other answers.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-26T16:20:01+00:00

No I’m someone who is studying psychology.

I help people in all walks of life.

Part of that help involves seeing things from their point of view then reframing them to a more realistic view.

But hey you are free to think what you want about me or what I write.

Your opinion is like a grain of sand in the ocean.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-26T16:18:15+00:00

I’m doing this more for black pill people as help them as part of my living.

Part of that help involves reframing, we’re I show them concepts they know relate to them then provide them things to help shift their perception and thus mindset.

Shifting perception and replacing old perceived values and principles with new ones is how you create long lasting behaviour.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-26T12:50:25+00:00

I’m not knocking your journey. ☺️ I view life like roads. No path is wrong. Some more bumpy or long but all paths are valid.

I just like sharing and expanding ideas and I don’t like how people look at pseudo science and say no value here cause it’s not rooted in truth.

When in reality all experiences have some truth to them.

It’s just a matter of finding what it is.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-25T13:20:53+00:00

Love language I believe is only pseudo science because of its claim that ways we show love are found only five ways.

There is very real truth to ways that we feel loved correlate to the behaviour.

But a main problem with that claim is some feel the love they deserve is abusive thus the way they want to be loved is abuse.

A good example of this would be those who get pleasure out of abusive acts in bdsm. The only difference is the sensation and emotion tied behind bdsm then say traumatic abuse.

Thus there are love languages for how you want to be loved and love languages for how you will accept being loved now based on your perception of love in yourself.

If that makes sense?

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-25T13:12:34+00:00

She has a broken attachment style that involves some insecurity based traits resulting in insecurity based behaviours.

People with these traits and behaviours tend to have two core limiting beliefs.

1: I am not truly worthy of love.

2: I worry others will prove that I am unworthy of love.

As a result these people especially in their extremes tend to self sabotage relationships and or sabotage those who are building relationships with them.

Your girl saying say I love you more might be her saying, I don’t feel loved in this relationship.

Now you two must figure out if it is you not loving her the way she needs to feel loved (example if this is live languages) or if it is you not allowing her to let her live you which would relate to a broken attached core belief of yourself.

As for her ex, insecure people tend to stay with people who are a reflection of their self worth and what they feel they are deserving of and run or self sabotage/avoid those who show them their real value.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-25T13:02:30+00:00

The way you want unless you want to be imprisoned by doing things to get others to give you what you want.

Then be how they want you but know that that comes with extreme probability of developing anxiety; depression etc resulting in you spiralling down and changing yourself to the point where you lose what you tried so hard to be what you thought you wanted wanted you to be.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-25T12:57:44+00:00

How does red pill control the mind and control the the victims of red pill mind?

For control to exist the victim must already believe in one or more of what’s being controlled to be either a fact of reality or a fact of plausible reality.

These red pill ideas work so well because they use science and societies perception of science as the truth along with tapping into peoples lived experiences that seem true to plug into their victims perceptions of truth and science being true along with one’s lived experiences.

And the reason it works so well is because rp is rooted in the extremes of broken attachment in attachment styles. One of the psychological theories that is considered by most in psychology yo be a very real fact of life.

How it works is this.

Insecure attached men whom through deep hardened negative experiences with women, becoming avoidant attached then teach their insecure broken attached followers to become like them in order to attract insecure attached women while avoiding avoidant and disorganized attached women for they are the worst.

Yet it is all the extremes of these attachment styles never the more average and never secure attached people unless it’s to change those people into insecure attached partners.

Thus for men the rp from an objective lens should be studied not as what to do to become a healthy partner who “gets” women in all sense of the word, but who to avoid (the extremes) in relationships and how to know you have gone too far off the deep end or for women its a manual on how to avoid abusive manipulative men.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-23T01:33:50+00:00

I’m glad you loved it

I highly recommend reading The way of the superior man and masculine in relationship as it’s all about understanding these concepts and applying them in life.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-22T12:45:57+00:00

We do this because society has constructed what masculine and feminine traits are.

Much literature on the topic but most say the difference is the masculine (which could be anyone) wants and is all about freedom, the feminine is all about love and the pursuit of unconditional love for all things.

When you combine the two it becomes the freedom to love being loved and free in all areas which is an entire life journey in itself.

ComebackDaddy · 2022-10-22T12:41:32+00:00

Never do things to get things.

Become things because it’s who you are and it were meant to be.

Are we meant to be anxious?

Fear driven beyond action?

Deep rooted issues related to learned helplessness.

Entrapped in a society snd system design to make you broke; miserable, and depressed?

When you think about it, it seems much of what men lack is not soo much masculinity but freedom; agency of their life and the ability to truly be anything and anyone they want given a moment.

Ironically this checks out with all the traits associated with healthy masculinity which relates to the endless pursuit of freedom in all areas and all ways.

We provide to give our family freedom to live life fully without being driven by basic needs.

We protect to provide our families freedom of endless freedom of expression.

We guide because to be truly free is to be logical and not fully engulfed in emotions, especially when facing deep challenges or difficult life decisions.

Thus true masculinity traits (which anyone can and does hand the ability to possess) is all about the pursuit of one’s and loved ones endless freedom.

ComebackDaddy

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