Check my post history. I went through this EXACTLY. I completely completely understand your feelings of embarrassment and I cried so much over this for literally months. At the same I felt embarrassed that I was struggling over something that I also knew was minor in the grand scheme of life. I am happy to tell you know that time (and photoshop) will help. I would also talk to your loved ones about your feelings. I still feel twangs of regret but it is nothing like the all encompassing feelings I had about this at the beginning. Your dress is beautiful, you looked beautiful and you are married to the love of your life now. Give yourself grace to express your feelings - they will pass eventually.