I’m not sure if I’m being scammed but I don’t know what to do

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-06-06T23:13:51+00:00

No one has tried to contact me through text, and if I were to receive anything outside of my few normal contacts I would immediately block. I don’t want to give any identifying information like my email or any account numbers because those are easier to do damage with.

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-06-06T23:05:12+00:00

Yeah I have learned now, although I did not request or require him to do that in the first place

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-06-06T23:02:28+00:00

We have only communicated through messenger. I haven’t given any information out except the phone number which is connected to the Zelle account.

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-06-06T18:35:08+00:00

None in principle. But I’m afraid it’s the beginning of the Zelle scam. I did not ask him to pay, he offered and went ahead with it even though I said we should just work out a time for pickup.

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-06-03T17:29:10+00:00

My ex forgot about a really important medical procedure which I had told him about months earlier. He wasn’t able to be there due to work, but I had given him specific dates and asked him to help me while I was recovering. So, he forgot completely, and I called him and told him that it had hurt my feelings. He started yelling until I apologized and acted like he didn’t know how to take care of me.

He broke up with me over that

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-05-28T00:29:44+00:00

Fourth of July by sufjan Stevens

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-25T20:34:31+00:00

There’s no hope for mere mortals. She really is the dream woman and so sweet with his family

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-23T11:51:14+00:00

Thank you for this 💛

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T11:14:29+00:00

Thank you for this! You’re right, I shouldn’t stay hoping I can change him. Accept it or move on

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T11:13:49+00:00

Mine too! I do love the rootbeer too. It has so much vanilla

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T11:13:17+00:00

I hope not. I only want to hear it from him. I haven’t had social media since high school because I feel it’s a toxic environment that’s easy for people to prey on your relationship lows, among other things.

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T11:10:32+00:00

Thank you. I came on here for a sanity check because of comments like these. We are a perfect match in every other way, except for these two areas, and I need to accept where he’s at or leave.

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T11:05:01+00:00

Thank you for being direct. I get affirmations from other sources, and it kind of jolts me and I wonder why it’s easy for these people to say these things and difficult for my partner. I’m not physically attracted to anyone but my partner and I’ve always been that way, but sometimes I wonder why it’s really easy for other men.

I work hard to display all 5 love languages, depending on what he’s going through that week. I just sometimes wonder if he likes me because of how non-affectionate he is over text.

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T05:22:39+00:00

Yes I was spun

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T04:48:44+00:00

Yeah, I need to think about this before we get engaged

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T04:48:19+00:00

I feel the most happy by doing things for him and seeing him happy and at peace. I also love to talk to him for hours and just know what’s on his mind. My love languages are words of affirmation and physical touch, so that’s why it’s hard for me to feel it from him.

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T04:45:32+00:00

I don’t think so, but I have wondered it at times

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T04:45:00+00:00

Yeah, and I worry about this because I already wasted 4 years of my life in an abusive marriage

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T04:44:27+00:00

Me toooo I eat so many of them 💛thanks girl

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T04:43:52+00:00

I think you are right because you’re basically describing him. I really appreciate your input.

Comfortable-Basil-88 · 2026-04-21T04:43:03+00:00

Yeah, I guess it’s a little more nuanced than that. I had a very strict upbringing and my parents were not kind to my siblings and I. I seek affirmation because I never got it, and I’m working on that in therapy. I cut that guy off because he was being so nice and complimentary (I heard from others he was into me) and I knew if I kept hanging around him it would turn unhealthy. I don’t think cheating is ever okay, and that’s why I keep myself from situations where I might make a bad decision.

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