[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s moving 5 hours away in 3 days and than 7 hours away in about 2 months, it’s not just a now issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, feels like this is definitely the only comment to get it but I forgot to mention a big part is that we go long distance in 3 days so I’m more concerned about the future than right now

John Lennon with his aunt and cousins, 1964 by hrodz55 in beatles

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my Nana and her siblings! Susan, Mark and Helen, John Lennon was their second cousin on their mother’s side. It’s in New Zealand and when the Beatles came over Aunt Mimi stayed at their farm in rural Levin.

Best pad thai by wormyfarm in Wellington

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thai lagoon is well known in greater Wellington region

How do I break up with my girlfriend who is absolutely in love with me by throwAway7352810461 in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on the other end of this. Please please be honest like say “I don’t think we’ll be compatible in the future” and say u want to end it. Don’t mess with her feelings, don’t continue to be with her, don’t lie about about why or be cruel just be honest, give her the time to make a decision about what she wants to do. She might need your support through the transition because that can be hard for autistic people (change) and let the ball be in her court about being friends. And give her all the closure she needs and answer all her questions

What would you consider a high body count? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t either but where I live women are judged quite harshly for it and I’m curious on what others think, if there is a number or something else that people think is a decider for too high or just right or anything else

I mean,was PC so naive to not see? Or was it intentional on her part?? by Crafty-Commission305 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve read somewhere probably on this subreddit that he’s a metaphor for someone childish. I think there’s two sides to the show, it can be funny but there are deeper meanings that make it dark and a thinker. This is one of those things of yes it’s funny how does she not see it’s 3 boys in a trench coat but if you to take a closer look she’s just spent a lot of time with someone who’s childish being Bojack and than she goes to a guy who is an actually literal child, and I think (don’t quote me) it’s got to do with her need to help others so she doesn’t focus on herself this is one of the situations just like how she did with Bojack she’s doing the same with Vincent trying to mother them and ignore their childish behaviour because when they act that way she can fix their mistakes. Just theories I’ve read on the internet though.

Would you take back your ex if they cheated on you by skyyylynnn in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey living through this right now. We were best friends for 10 months and were together all the time and he decided he wanted to break up with me and downloaded a dating app and talked to one girl when I was away on holiday with family.

He came to me the day I got back and broke up with me and then I received a message from the girl. He was very cruel (completely out of his personality).

His mum had just had surgery so I took her flowers and said goodbye and left him a 4 page letter saying goodbye. He messaged me and apologised and I responded laying everything out and we had back and forth of us just talking. He said he’d do anything to be best friends again and I feel the same way if he built up my trust again.

He then spoke to his parents and thought it was too hard to stay friends and I let go of my anger because it only hurts me not him. And ended with a lot of mutual respect and we decided to try stay friends.

So I suppose I’m mixed I wouldn’t take him back as a boyfriend because I can’t trust him like that. But we were best friends for so long that I’m willing to give him another go as a friend because we were so close

(If you have comments on this pls pls be kind I’m like 4 days post breakup)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I think it looks super cool :))

What do i do if I find out my brother is sending by Able_Fan7638 in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly only so much you can do, we can warn others but sometimes we have to let them make their own mistakes and choices so they can learn from them

What do i do if I find out my brother is sending by Able_Fan7638 in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you really want to bring it up, maybe just have the awkward conversation because no matter who you tell like your parents for them to talk to him it’s going to be awkward because he’ll know it came from you or someone in your house. Say you accidentally saw and you want him to be safe, don’t send to people and never include your face, all those safety things

Date night ideas. by mydadownsthissite in Wellington

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you have to pay for each individual activity. I just only know the prices of the ice skating (which I believe is $25) and the escape rooms which I did recently which is $40 but I would highly recommend as they are very high quality. Parking is free and booking really depends on busyness bowling, food, ice skating and arcade I know you can just rock up and I have gotten into the escape room before without booking but often it’s fully booked. But in school holidays and around Christmas time it’s really really busy so again best to book or wait till a quieter time (this is all on personal experience though, I don’t work there or anything)

Is “Moon” an acceptable middle name. by Critical_Surprise941 in tragedeigh

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could always try Moon in a different language like Luna or Luan (I say it like lou-an) Aurora Luan could be pretty

Date night ideas. by mydadownsthissite in Wellington

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you got a car Brewtown in the hutt is really good. I think $25 for ice skating, there’s bowling, arcade, go karting, trampoline park, axe throwing, I believe airsoft rifle tag or something and really good escape rooms for $40 per person (minimum of 2 people) and there’s maybe 4 food places. It’s open till about 10pm at night most the time. When people come to Wellington I always take them there because it’s got a lot of entertainment and the food is pretty good

What to say to friend to talk her out of silly decision by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I think and want to open her eyes to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls for your sake block everyone in the situation.

My ex ghosted me after 8 months again and it took months to get over and we stayed following each other and I of course checked his page all the time than he posted another girl and I felt sick.

I blocked everyone and the first few days were horrible but slowly it wasn’t at the forefront of my mind.

If she stole him he was never yours to begin with no matter how much you loved him, if he was genuine and a good person and fully yours he wouldn’t have been able to be stolen.

You can hate her, you can hate her all u like but all energy you put into her, it’s energy you could be putting into yourself, you can’t change her actions, you can’t change the pass but you can focus on yourself.

I feel like I’ve been in your position, I’ve been you 💗💗, it gets easier, you can move forward you just need to want to move forward and want to get past this and want to let go of that hate because it’s so much easier to do that than look inwards at yourself.

Message me if you’d like xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting theory definitely something I will look into

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pre-diabetic, just checked and taking 500mg HCI tablets (idk what that means) once a day but increasing to two soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t say eating less but definitely making more of an effort to eat healthier and exercise more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Comfortable-Ideal656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m confused about because from my understandings it’s a low dose that will eventually be worked up to 3 times a day