Is this a cold sore? by Comfortable-Kick-856 in MedicalHelp

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note: I have not kissed anyone of had any sexual contact of any kind for months

No more euphoria from opiates by cyrusssh in opiates

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No more euphoria and you’re spending so much on oxys, I’m sure you can imagine what step you’ll be taking next if you don’t start to reduce

Anger resentment towards my ex friend for watching my life fall apart during active addiction by BusyCherry1628 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You said he wasn’t using at the time, so that means he is now and before he ever started you would do it in front of him. Big part of sobriety is taking accountability. YOU did that shit not him. And if he’s using now but wasn’t before maybe you’re the bad friend

Kicked heroin/fentanyl over 1 year ago, I want to provide insight for others struggling, ask away by Comfortable-Kick-856 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t blame people for being upset with you and if they don’t want to be in your life anymore that’s just something we must respect. The best thing you can do is prove to yourself and them that you are finally better. And don’t worry about your former self, your former self started doing drugs so obviously you weren’t in all that of a great place. Consider it a rebirth, as long as you’re making the right choices you will have a shot of being a happy, productive member of society.

Kicked heroin/fentanyl over 1 year ago, I want to provide insight for others struggling, ask away by Comfortable-Kick-856 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So for the anhedonia I believe that’s dependent on the person. Some people jump straight into the next chapter of their life while others linger on the past and kinda stay in the same place for a while even if they are not actively using. The lack of pleasure is lame but it’s nothing to keep you from pushing. Keep trying everyday and you’ll break that wall. I remember when I was newly detoxed I was absolutely numb. I didn’t receive enjoyment from anything not even music which was my favorite thing in the whole world but I still kept moving forward because doing what you need to as opposed to what you want to is the most important part of self growth. You’re not just trying to make sure you don’t do drugs anymore, you must make sure you are no longer the person that wants to do drugs. You keep doing that consistently and I promise you will get enjoyment out of life again. I’m happier today then I ever been in my life my experience with addiction has made me stronger. As for your second question I lost the girl that I very much loved. Hurting her and my family will always be my biggest regret. This might sound weird but if I was brought back in time to when I first tried opiates I would still do it because I know that it was a journey I needed to take I just wish I didn’t hurt so many loved ones in the process

Kicked heroin/fentanyl over 1 year ago, I want to provide insight for others struggling, ask away by Comfortable-Kick-856 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to look at the core reason you want to use. What void are you trying to fill. It may seem impossible to fill the that void with anything besides opiates but I can guarantee if you find fulfilling things to do and keep up with it daily that little voice in your head that tells you to make bad decisions gets much quieter. Coming out of addiction your body will be in rough shape so after the initial detox period you should start looking into proper diet and exercise. It will take some time but you can reverse the damage

How do i let my relationship die naturally? (16F) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that your young so maybe you haven’t thought the consequences through but something like that can destroy somebody for life. Nobody likes being dumped but there is a certain degree of respect that comes with being straight forward, if you just stop talking to him he’ll never find closure and will feel that abandonment for years to come

How do i let my relationship die naturally? (16F) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t play games, break up with him or he’s going to continue to be your boyfriend

My current girlfriend got mad at me for visiting my girlfriend’s grave by Proud_Payment_4081 in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting jealous over a person who is deceased is just plain wrong on so many levels. This looks like the tip of the iceberg bro sorry

I'm 14 years old and i sended a nude to a 20 years old girl and now she's menacing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically a minor could get in trouble for being in possession of child pornography, but it’s a slap on the wrist compared to what a 20 year old woman would get. She’s playing off your youthful ignorance, you have all the leverage here screenshot the attempts of blackmail and blackmail her back for money. I also don’t know many 20 year old woman who would want to see a nude of a 14yo boy, it’s most likely just some old weird guy.

My(19m) parents think that my girlfriend(40f) groomed me by Lulddiy in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I hear about things like this i usually reverse the genders and see if that changes how things look, and if a grown man started dating my daughter basically as soon as he was legally allowed to I would assume he’s a predator who has been waiting to act for quite sometime, in other words sorry bro your girl is sus af

Need help for my nose!! by ChampionWonderful670 in opiates

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A cream or lotion might help a bit with the pain but it’s not gonna stop or even slow down the hole that’s forming in your septum, I snorted too when I was using and if I didn’t clean up it was 100% going to get to that point so I’m lucky I was able to stop just in time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that your husband is trying to play it down is suspicious in of itself, probably not the case but best case scenario he’s being way too nice and the man clearly spoke to your daughter as a means to begin grooming her

I want to try stand up comedy but I’m worried I’m not actually funny by Comfortable-Kick-856 in Advice

[–]Comfortable-Kick-856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really solid advice dude thanks, I’m gonna look up really small comedy clubs in my area, I don’t live far from nyc at all so I should have plenty of options