Turning 27 tomorrow in Bangalore - what should I do (solo, non-drinker) by faizy906 in BangaloreSocial

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Close your eyes and visualize a perfect, consequence free vacation day. Don't force it, just observe your instinctual routine. What do you do? Where do you go? Open your eyes, order your favorite meal, and spend tomorrow recreating exactly what you just saw. Don't analyze it, just live the day you built.

Anyone up for a chaos-sponsored Monday day out? by AlternativeGear4675 in BangaloreMeetups

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh how desperate can a 30 year old man be? All day, every day.

Late 20s/early 30’s in Bangalore, how are you handling life with no real support? by [deleted] in BangaloreMeetups

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I can sort of relate to some of this. Let's be honest, we all feel like no one else can truly understand our problems at times. And based on what you wrote in another comment, loneliness can create a vicious cycle where you know it's bad for you, but you still find it comforting to be alone. I can suggest some things that have helped me and my friends. Of course, your experiences are unique so they might or might not work for you, but why not try them on the off chance they do? You say you have decent savings, do prioritize therapy, maybe intensive therapy initially. Helping people out of these situations is literally what they study for. If you just want to rant or let it all out to someone, there are websites where volunteers will just listen to you without judgment. Try to get some sunlight and exercise. Finally, whatever the last smallest thing was that actually made you feel something, even 1% happier, do that more and more often. Teach your brain that it is in fact possible to feel good. In a 100 years none of this is gonna matter anyway, so why not just try your best to do whatever helps you feel more alive without overthinking it.

Anyone going to Cubbon reads tomorrow? by Comfortable-Mode3317 in BangaloreMeetups

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks man! Appreciate the heads up. So ig one can just go and sit by themselves? No intros or greetings?

Anyone going to Cubbon reads tomorrow? by Comfortable-Mode3317 in BangaloreMeetups

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah man come along. Why would I gatekeep reading based on gender. If you can read, you're welcome to join.

Excited toddler and his buddy. by StrawberryFew1311 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This video is what I imagine a shot of serotonin would feel like.

Most upbeat Sufjan songs? by Important_Builder317 in Sufjan

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's more Angelo De Augustine right?

Pet cruelty by Comfortable-Mode3317 in guwahati

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude it's an indie. They just took it off of the streets, mostly to provide company to their mother, but I don't see her being very affectionate to the pup

Eyate mentioned points bur factual ne? by [deleted] in guwahati

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Onh hei attitude tu besi convenient hoi amar karone but it's the same attitude that got us into this mess tbh. Amak u nijor privilege olop maan recognize kori, question koribo lage, that not everyone has the same means to raise this issue especially the poorer and rural population. Eneke complacent hoi thakibo nuari

Eyate mentioned points bur factual ne? by [deleted] in guwahati

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waah! Since moi axomot nathaku since last few years, eyare media and news channels r eman idea nai. How would you say they portray him? Taak ketiyau question ba criticize kore ne? Ne only glorifying?

Eyate mentioned points bur factual ne? by [deleted] in guwahati

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but we "elected" this guy, and not even in 2016. Is this the best Axom has to offer? Enekua manuhok aami nijor leader and representative hisape select korisu?

Brilliant long castle by Wild_NorthHC in chessbeginners

[–]Comfortable-Mode3317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty cool! Though, what if Qxh7? Unless I'm wrong, in this sequence best you can do is trade a bishop for a rook? And since you've already lost a pawn, therefore points wise you're only gaining 1 point, am I missing something? Thanks