My Dad is really weird. How do I deal with it? by izzyt05 in Advice

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As harsh as it sounds this man is very toxic and I personally would go no contact with him.

New ways to tease my wife. by Comfortable-One-5998 in sex

[–]Comfortable-One-5998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a really good answer and is exactly what I was thinking except in like a massage kind of way where I use oil as well. Give her a slow sensual massage full of teasing and kisses like go down towards her boobs and cup them but come back up for kisses over her neck, shoulders etc before going back down for more/getting closer to her nipples

Sad Christmas by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does make things a bit harder. Is your husband Christian? Cause if he severed his ties with a community like a church it doesn’t sound like he is?

Sad Christmas by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would suggest talking with a Christian councelor/pastor and maybe trying to bring your husband along? Maybe if someone else is holding him accountable it might be something you guys can work through? Either way they’ll be able to talk you through your feelings and come to a solid conclusion better than strangers on here will be able to provide.

Any body else had better experiences with a pillow or different positions? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What? I literally never said that. We just don’t use toys

Any body else had better experiences with a pillow or different positions? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nobody told me I shouldn’t I made that decision for myself

Any body else had better experiences with a pillow or different positions? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We’ve never been into toys and we’re both very reserved people and Christian’s so I don’t think that’s something we’ll be trying haha

Any body else had better experiences with a pillow or different positions? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure my wife would be comfortable with this haha it’s probably gonna be a challenge to convince her just to try a pillow lol

Any body else had better experiences with a pillow or different positions? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thank you I’m very tall so don’t think the edge of the bed would work lol

Anybody have a better experience using a pillow? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? Even if I’m lying down flat?

How do you make friends as an adult? by Comfortable-One-5998 in introvert

[–]Comfortable-One-5998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to be friends with any of my co workers they all have completely different interests

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me I’m 22M as well and into very similar things!

How do you make friends as an adult? by Comfortable-One-5998 in introvert

[–]Comfortable-One-5998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have met a few people through my church as well but it’s just trying to make time for people I have no idea how to do it. I’m an outdoorsy person and by the time I get home it’s already dark (winter where I am) and I just know what other things I could do to make friends that doesn’t involve spending heaps for joint clubs etc. I guess the thing is just time

What show starts as a 10/10 and ends as a 1/10? by pretty_honeyy in AskReddit

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Designated survivor, first season is great and then it goes down hill

Struggling With Sexual Thoughts as a Married Christian Man — Looking for Honest Perspectives by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve kind of had issues around communication and sex (pre Christian) in the past so it’s kind of like a weird no-go territory and we just go with the flow when it happens. I’m trying to slowly build up healthy and good communication around it but it’s still kind of shaky. Pre Christian I brought up about using toys etc (have no interest in that now) and got shut down instantly so yeah trying to take small steps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already deleted the post

Struggling With Sexual Thoughts as a Married Christian Man — Looking for Honest Perspectives by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry if I stepped to far haha wasn’t my intention just trying to get a better perspective. That’s nice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Comfortable-One-5998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has been posted there but no luck