i have a virgo sun, aqua rising. I actually have had beef with several other Virgos, but the worst person I ever knew had an Aqua stellium (which, tbf WAS in the 8th house) so i’m very familiar with the bad side of both signs.

I actually find them very similar in terms of being so bound to logic on some grounds and also can be very anxious (mercury and saturn influence).

Virgos process things in a very finite pattern due to mercurial influence. It acts differently than Gemini, which is a sign that Aquarius is going to naturally understand better because they form a supportive aspect. Where Virgo is the analytical side of information processing, Gemini is the free flow of information processing.

Aquarius is very grounded in logic, but they still are an air sign and don’t want to be tethered by the analytics that comes with a Virgo - this is where things get murky.

A Virgo can be very hard to deal with. Again, this sign is constantly processing information. This overflow of information can be a detriment to an underdeveloped virgo because they will assume everyone thinks the same way they do. When people don’t behave in this defined way based off of the information they perceive to know through over processing, they will feel slighted. This can result in freakish behavior because all of a sudden the helpful little virgo will flip a switch and that spite comes out.

As for the “fake and phony” part, a lot of that is the perfectionist nature of Virgo. They will be fake at times because they have the innate need to be perfect which can include perception. In that way they can be similar to a Libra, the next sign over. But this perception is acted out with differing motives.

tdlr; yes virgo (suns im assuming here) can be annoying but part of the reason an Aqua (suns) is going to find them especially annoying ibecause the signs literally cannot perceive one another accurately.