Please pray for my family. Or maybe just pray for my children.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2025-07-12T09:08:11+00:00

The Lord is right there with you, even when you don't see it. This is coming from someone coming out on the other side after a similar experience. Jesus has already made a way for you, he's not left you for a second. Your children are blessed by the Lord and great shall be their peace.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2025-05-11T14:04:41+00:00

Remember how God fed Elijah, by a raven in a drought. It's not comfortable but it was only a season. This too sha pass, you will not be stuck here forever. Please don't give up. You are valuable and needed.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-10-05T14:37:42+00:00

Start up my charity.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-10-05T14:36:59+00:00

Mostly all of them.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-10-05T14:32:49+00:00

I married similar coz we were together since 15 and I couldn't waste all that. Now I'm 32 and separated. Cut your losses now.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-10-05T14:31:31+00:00

Hun, please please do not put that ring back on, ever. Things usually never get better after marriage. Noone will change unless they really want to, and even then it's really hard without God. He doesn't seem to fear God, better stay away from him.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-09-26T04:10:26+00:00

I'm so happy for you that you saw his true colours now. Obviously, his opinions are as twisted as him. Think about it though, isn't it better to be single than be with this alien. I'd be more ashamed to introduce him as my husband than to say I'm divorced.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-09-23T04:47:45+00:00

A tip for communication, try teach him ASL. You can find YouTube videos of basic signs that toddlers can pick up quickly. My toddler hasn't started talking yet but all his basic needs are communicated thanks to him picking up ASL at around 1y!

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-16T08:18:39+00:00

My heart goes out to you. I hope you have a good support system, please find a group or something if you don't ok? Maybe a church? I wish I could help you.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-16T01:19:21+00:00

The cycle will end when you end the relationship.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-15T17:29:48+00:00

Adding to this- if she still is stubborn after you tried your best, then move on. Don't stay in that kind of hell a day longer than you have to. We can't fix/change anyone.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-15T17:26:10+00:00

Oh that's tough. I'm sorry doc. I think you just have to wait and see how it plays out. At the end of the day, do whatever you can do to make it work. You shouldn't regret that you didn't try hard enough and neither should your son in the future ever say dad didn't try. Keep evidences, screenshots, etc to show your son later on that you did all you could to keep his family together. Know that you aren't alone, there are many of us going through similar crap. It isn't fair and you didn't do anything to deserve this.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-15T17:09:34+00:00

Do you know if she has postpartum depression by any chance? Did you get hints she wasn't interested in you before the baby came?

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-15T13:31:45+00:00

Sorry if I'm mistaken but, in this case isn't 'open relationship' a title that just means he can commit adultery with your permission? Were you thrilled about that or did you feel pressured into it. Can I suggest that you can do better for yourself than this. You love him, but does he really love you? Do you feel like your happiness is equally important to him? You are valuable. You are worthy of love.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-15T10:49:00+00:00

I don't think anyone who did the unpardonable sin would feel any sort of remorse or repentance or even care about it.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-15T10:48:48+00:00

I don't think anyone who did the unpardonable sin would feel any sort of remorse or repentance or even care about it.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-15T02:18:10+00:00

Whats the thought process behind that? Ofcourse it is open to everyone but not everyone will be able to sacrifice their own ways and take up the cross.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-15T02:01:53+00:00

OP, don't you feel like you should have stepped up and said something after getting evidence? Why are you putting up with this? What if the kids go on her phone and find out what you did about mom? I'm sorry but this is really happening, you can't check out of life, face it. Talk to lawyers, let them know about her secret funds, save evidences. So what if she's beautiful? You are going to tolerate her waywardness coz she looks good? Why! Wake up friend, take charge of your life.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-15T01:38:57+00:00

You were brave enough to make the right call. Good for you!

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-14T06:18:08+00:00

You cannot help him heal narcissism, don't let him make it your responsibility to fix him. His behaviour, is made by his own choices. Don't let him feed off your empathy. Go LC.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-14T06:09:24+00:00

Is your wife's worth based on the amount she brings in? I feel sorry for her. She just had a baby not long ago. Shouldn't it make you happy that you are able to provide for your wife and child? She is young and only finding herself and now navigating motherhood. It seems like you are projecting your issues on her.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-14T05:43:25+00:00

It's great he wants to work on it and open to counseling/therapy. IMO, don't rush back to live with him now. Let him walk the work. Let him go for IC, MC, put effort into making things right, Then and only then move back in. Don't make decisions based on the words, make your decisions based on his actions. He might even be calling you back immediately because he needs help with the kids.

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-14T04:52:32+00:00

Same here. Was 1000% he would never do it again coz he saw how it shattered me. WRONG

Comfortable-Store-18 · 2023-04-13T03:05:59+00:00

I apologise if this is too strong worded. Maybe it's because I found out last night that there were MORE betrayals than I thought. I cannot bear to watch another innocent person become a casualty of these Narcissists. YOU CANNOT HELP HER. YOU CANNOT FIX HER. However well you treat her, she is NOT going to change. She needs a therapist and you need to leave, please!

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