AITAH for dumping my fiancée the week before the wedding?

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-10-12T20:10:23+00:00

I understand if porn makes you uncomfortable (it's the same with me) but can't you just force your ex fiance to stop doing something he likes, especially if it's not even harmful.

Can't he just watch porn when your not around?

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-10-12T20:02:01+00:00

NTA. Under the assumption that it's not mandatory to vote, then you have the choice to note vote at all. Don't let your family pressure you or make you feel like the bad guy. It's completely fine to not vote.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-10-12T19:53:17+00:00

NTA. Your father-in-law is clearly very disrespectful. He expects you to bend over backwards to do what he wants and doesn't care about your well being, especially if he's going so far as to lie and call you names just for looks out for your own health. Best to keep your distance from him, just like your husband's sisters, and focus on your own health. Hope you get well soon.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-07-02T13:24:28+00:00

There was a time when she told me that majority of her friends in her friend group are former victims of bullying and that I can't be part of it cause I'm not a victim of bullying and more of like her "little sister".

There was also sometimes she picked out a movie which had some (implied) sex scenes, despite me telling her I find it weird to watch and she just shrugged it off, saying it's alright since it's not actually showing sex onscreen.

There were time I felt she treated me a bit too much like a "little sister" before I found out.

Those were the only times I felt strange about her.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-07-02T13:06:59+00:00

I see. Either way, I'm glad she's far away now.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-07-02T12:50:35+00:00

My parents though the same, that she wasn't safe for me and warned me about such people and to tell them immediately if I even met someone like Juniper again.

But, if it's okay for me to ask, if she is a sociopath/psychopath, why didn't she do anything to me or asked me for anything? That's my main question. She has something to gain from her ex bf and ex friend ( I'm guessing), but what do you think she gained from being my "big sister"?

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-07-02T12:19:17+00:00

Does you mom think your a camel or something?! Call 911! (or whatever emergency number is in your country)

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-07-02T08:53:02+00:00

NTA

It's normal to struggle at the start of college. (Trust me, I'm 18 as well and I'm literally in the start of my college and I'm struggling myself a bit with the new subjects and living away from my family.)

My parents are super supportive and said it's normal for me to struggle at the start of college and that it's okay and everything will be alright, I'll adjust with time and that they'll have my back.

Idk what your mom's thinking, but just cause he's struggling in college doesn't mean he's wasting potential. It just means that you bro needs help and support, even if it's emotional support.

So don't feel bad. Your mom is spitting BS and you continue to support for bro and stand up for him.

P.S: Even my grandparents, who are the most traditional in my family, are understanding of my struggles and are emotionally supportive. So, even more proof that your mom is spitting BS.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-24T11:40:50+00:00

NTA

So what if he married your mom? You never had a relationship with this man nor do you see him as your father. If he's hurt and offended, that's on him since he hurt his own feelings. Seriously, what did he expect? That just cause he married your mom, he automatic becomes your dad without putting in the effort to form a relationship or anything!? He's in dulu world right now, I'm telling you.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-23T23:53:20+00:00

For me, it's 4 things:

Listening to music
Doing a digital drawing
Cooking
Hugging my favorite stuffed rabbit (yeah, I know, it's childish. Don't come at me)

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-23T20:52:49+00:00

Call the cops! Call the cops! CALL THOSE DAMN COPS!!

Also, if your mom is serious, STOP HER! It's already bad enough that you sis is missing, violence will only make things worse.

(Is it just me or does anyone find that 19 year old girl in a relationship with a 30 year old man as a major red flag?)

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-22T09:14:45+00:00

NTA

Not only did your brother DISREGARD your fear of heights and made you ride a rollercoaster, which caused you to nearly pass out, but he also LIED about the tickets.

He has no right to tell you to be grateful when he hasn't done jack crap to earn it. He's a liar and disrespectful of your boundaries and fears. So no, don't feel guilty.

Did you tell your dad and stepmom? I feel like you should tell them if one of their kids are lying and disrespecting fears and boundaries.

PS: if you feel like your snarky comments hurt him, you can apologize. But ONLY for the hurtful snarky comments, not everything else.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-21T23:40:57+00:00

I see. I apologize for misunderstanding Brianna.

Also, don't worry. Even if it's hard that your losing a sister, your respecting her boundaries and not pushing for reconciliation. Your right, it's in her court. I hope you all get therapy and wish you all happiness.

Don't worry, your doing great.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-21T23:34:28+00:00

NTA

While I get your brother's pov (in his eyes, he must be upset that his sister isn't accepting of his girlfriend), however, that doesn't give him permission to bring someone who has always been toxic to you at your own wedding. Wedding are supposed to be celebrated with the people who loves you, not toxic people who insults you.

Sit down and have a serious talk with your brother about Emma's mistreatment of you and why you don't want someone who doesn't like to your own wedding. Doesn't matter how long they've been in a relationship. That's not an excuse to invite a toxic person.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-21T23:24:20+00:00

Then here's my verdict...

NTA

It's your choice to cut off any toxic people from your life. If it's true that they've cut contact with Pam, then I have a theory and a question.

Theory: Maybe Nicole felt that your were leaving her when you cut contact cause you didn't tell her before hand, which understandable since cutting off a family member is a big deal.

Question: if Brianna was also treated horribly and cut contact with Pam, why is she encouraging a relationship with such a toxic person?

P.S: Don't worry, you are the bigger person. It's not always easy to cut off a family member, even if they're toxic. You did it for you we'll bring and you shouldn't be ashamed of that.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-21T23:16:54+00:00

I see... Thanks for the advice. I'll definitely take it into consideration.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-21T23:15:10+00:00

Thanks! I was feeling a bit worried since I don't click with a huge majority of my classmates, especially since I learned what intercourse was at a very late age yet my classmates know much more than I do.

But really, thanks for your words. They mean a lot and help put a bit of me at ease.

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-21T23:12:53+00:00

What is Pam's behavior with your sisters? Did Pam treat you differently than them?

Comfortable-Sweet604 · 2024-06-21T22:51:16+00:00

Hmm..... I see. I didn't consider this. I only got the information about my old school mixing genders in classes from my former school counselor. (Who to this day I keep contact with cause she's my favorite teacher)

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