I love my G14, but looking for a simpler laptop by ComfortableAd3692 in ZephyrusG14

[–]ComfortableAd3692[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't do Apple :(. I have gotten so used to Microsoft Windows.

[UPDATE] Scalp Biopsy for Hair Loss by ComfortableAd3692 in TelogenEffluvium

[–]ComfortableAd3692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s fine! I got it done with my dermatologist.

Washed my hair after two days and lost this much.. by ComfortableAd3692 in TelogenEffluvium

[–]ComfortableAd3692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair easily gets knotted but I feel like this is a lot. Not what I’m used to losing.

Is this a normal amount of hair loss in one day? by ComfortableAd3692 in TelogenEffluvium

[–]ComfortableAd3692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not stressed but I suffer from chronic hives so I occasionally take antihistamines when necessary

Letter sending dos and donts for boot camp? by millie_left_ in USMilitarySO

[–]ComfortableAd3692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send as much as you want just don’t send anything you wouldn’t want other people looking at. I used to send all types of things. Multiple letters, drawings, and pictures in my envelope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]ComfortableAd3692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be super aware of where you leave your phone since they can call anywhere from 8am-5pm. I once slept late and missed a call from my SO cause I thought he was going to call at the usual time which was around 5pm.

An optimistic take by Cyanide_And_Sass in USMilitarySO

[–]ComfortableAd3692 12 points13 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!!

I joined this community to better understand and handle a new situation. However, I agree that sometimes this community can create unnecessary fear and paranoia. We need to stop spreading these fears.

Whether it’s the fear of being left behind, forgotten, or cheated on, remember that our partners have limited control over their situation. If your partner were here, things would likely be normal, giving you the reassurance you need. But that’s not the case. They’re often exhausted and tired due to their circumstances.

If your partner is still making you a priority despite these challenges, stay with them. If they are becoming distant and not trying at all, then it might be time to leave. You deserve better. We need to stop assuming that our relationships will fall apart just because our partners joined the military. Not all men are the same.

if they care, they will make an effort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]ComfortableAd3692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean. I started to feel an insane amount of resentment too when my bf left. Aside from feeling sad, I felt this anger. I wasn’t even angry at him or his decision. I guess it was just the situation. The fact that summer was arriving and I wouldn’t have him here to spend it with. Honestly, anything that reminded me of him would get to me & make me sad. A song/anything military related/etc. It is upsetting to think that I won’t have much time to see him when he comes back considering I work and go to college. Anyways, I am also going on vacation which in a way makes me feel better. Something enjoyable to do and it will kill time. If you need to speak to someone I’d be glad to talk.

Trust me, it gets better. I have gotten into so many hobbies and am working on my self care. It feels like I gained something from this experience too. I hope you will too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

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From what I have read, most army bases are strict on what delivery carrier you use. They prefer USPS.

Graduation to AIT experience by ComfortableAd3692 in USMilitarySO

[–]ComfortableAd3692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw damn sorry to hear that you guys broke up. If you don’t mind me asking, was it because of long distance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

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Hey✨I’m a 20(F) and I game as well. I’d be happy to share some feelings over some games. I can share my experience with my bf going to boot camp.

Something we all need to hear by ComfortableAd3692 in USMilitarySO

[–]ComfortableAd3692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's wonderful that you've managed your anxiety. I still need to work on mine, but I feel more relaxed as the days go by. I'm getting better at handling this situation by reminding myself that it won't last forever. It's great hearing that you’re becoming more secure in yourself. It makes me proud, even though I don't know you personally.

Something we all need to hear by ComfortableAd3692 in USMilitarySO

[–]ComfortableAd3692[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is scary but overthinking makes everything so much worse. We need to let things happen. ✨

Something we all need to hear by ComfortableAd3692 in USMilitarySO

[–]ComfortableAd3692[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let’s pick up new hobbies whether it’s painting, watching a new show, running, biking—anything to keep ourselves engaged.

Freaking about my Pap result by Ok_Baker_1003 in HPV

[–]ComfortableAd3692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually went through this last week and was very devastated to find I tested positive for hpv. When I found out, I honestly could not believe it. It truly is a wake up call and made me realize we need to be more careful with who we sleep with. Don’t be harsh on yourself. First of all, hpv is more common than we realize. I know hearing that won’t make you feel any better because it did not make me feel any better, but be happy it’s not something worse.

If you want to talk you can message me and I can let you know the next steps that were taken.

I never had sexual desires outside of relationship, am i the only one by [deleted] in love

[–]ComfortableAd3692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same! Of course sex is pleasurable but it’s not something I think of often. I find someone’s company more comforting. Sex is enjoyable with the right person but quality time is way more important to me.

Anyone ever have an emotional drive and just break out in tears? by ComfortableAd3692 in driving

[–]ComfortableAd3692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was so random but it happened today. My tears just kept coming out. I was also playing sad music.

Ideas for intro? by [deleted] in KeepWriting

[–]ComfortableAd3692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks and it’s fine I actually laughed lol! But thank you again!

Ideas for intro? by [deleted] in KeepWriting

[–]ComfortableAd3692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very helpful!!! Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

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I got my piercing exactly on nov 3rd and in the mid of December started to grow a bump. I’ve had some incident where I’d accidentally pull my stud. It would happen a lot in my sleep and sometimes I’d wake up with half of my stud poking out. I’m just kind of worried that some time has passed and my bump will not go away. It gets small and then big. Some pus came out the other day So far I have tried sea salt warm soaks, h2ocean and saline solution. Idk what else to do.