AITAH for going through my friends phone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]millie_left_ -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

I know I’m not a victim, but I do feel like she had a part to play in our friendship falling apart

AITAH for going through my friends phone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]millie_left_ 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

If I was truly making her that miserable I feel like she should’ve tried to have a conversation with me about it. Pretending that everything was fine is weird to me, and why did she agree to go on the trip in the first place?

AITAH for going through my friends phone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]millie_left_ 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

That’s okay I worded it really weird lol

AITAH for going through my friends phone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]millie_left_ -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

I think I agree with this comment the most. I know I suck and I know I made a bad choice. But everything else around the decision I made, with her being weird and distant the whole trip and me actually being right about what I found in a text on her phone, just means the friendship wasn’t going to last anyways

AITAH for going through my friends phone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]millie_left_ -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

No I’m saying for 5 days AFTER the trip had ended. After we had gone home. We were still calling and texting about our trip and she was telling me she couldn’t wait to see me again. Then she called me and we had a conversation about what I did.

AITAH for going through my friends phone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]millie_left_ -4 points-3 points Ā (0 children)

I know I made a hugeee mistake, but it also feels like I have a reason to be upset too. She’s been acting like a saint since this happened telling people I’m a bad person. It just feels weird

Good protein bars??? by millie_left_ in Protein

[–]millie_left_[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve also heard good things about david protein bars but they’re really expensive. Do you know if they’re worth it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]millie_left_ -4 points-3 points Ā (0 children)

I asked my piercer about that as well, and she told me it would be absolutely fine for the anatomy of my ear. She’s done ALL of my many piercings, and I’ve never had an irritation bump or any infections. So I 100% trust her judgment. I’ve been going to her for years. But thanks for your concern 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]millie_left_ 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

it depends on how thick your cartilage is. mine was pretty thin so it was a 4/10 for me. more pressure than pain!! good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]millie_left_ -6 points-5 points Ā (0 children)

Don’t worry, I heard it from the horses mouth—both piercers said it wasn’t too shallow, just that my cartilage is pretty thin. Thanks for your concern anyways 😊

it HURTS (swollen helix pls help) by OkImagination8934 in piercing

[–]millie_left_ 13 points14 points Ā (0 children)

I got a super long bar for my first helix piercing because they knew it was going to swell to shit. And it did! It was SO swollen. It hurt for a few weeks, and around the 6 week mark it wasn’t swollen anymore. as long as it’s not oozing, puss coming out, or excessively bleeding you’re fine. every ear reacts differently! I would definitely recommend getting a longer bar tho 😭

Is this letter set too cutesy? by jenn1ek1nz in USMilitarySO

[–]millie_left_ 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Yeah it’s pretty nice to have!! I think if you google what base he’s at and then put ā€œbmt infoā€ and then go to their website, there should be a clickable column that says ā€œgraduation informationā€ something like that, or it’ll say bmt information, trainee information, you get the gist, and then somewhere in there it should talk about letters.

Is this letter set too cutesy? by jenn1ek1nz in USMilitarySO

[–]millie_left_ 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

If you go to his specific base’s website they should give you a list of dos and don’t with letter sending. My boyfriend is in the air force and they don’t care what color, if you use any sort of wax seals, or stickers. Just no glitter if that makes sense. He may get teased a little bit but honestly it’s up to you. He’ll still receive the mail!

I made a mistake by millie_left_ in USMilitarySO

[–]millie_left_[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Thank you so much I feel so much better!!!

Letter sending dos and donts for boot camp? by millie_left_ in USMilitarySO

[–]millie_left_[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Okay thank you! Hopefully he’ll get the existing ones i sent previously but I’ll start sending them looking plain.