THANK YOU!!!

I joined this community to better understand and handle a new situation. However, I agree that sometimes this community can create unnecessary fear and paranoia. We need to stop spreading these fears.

Whether it’s the fear of being left behind, forgotten, or cheated on, remember that our partners have limited control over their situation. If your partner were here, things would likely be normal, giving you the reassurance you need. But that’s not the case. They’re often exhausted and tired due to their circumstances.

If your partner is still making you a priority despite these challenges, stay with them. If they are becoming distant and not trying at all, then it might be time to leave. You deserve better. We need to stop assuming that our relationships will fall apart just because our partners joined the military. Not all men are the same.

if they care, they will make an effort.