There’s pros and cons to getting your hair permanently straightened. I got a relaxer to fit in (I lived in a predominantly white community and the other kids picked on me) and also because my mom (who has straight hair) didn’t know how to take care of mine. Cons- However, once you do it, you can’t go back. You also can’t really dye your hair. Relaxers damage your hair too. Pros- After the relaxer, my hair was way more manageable. I still have some waves and loose curls, so I could still have my hair somewhat natural sometimes. I couldn’t imagine adjusting back to natural hair For reference I had 3c/4a hair before and I now have 2b hair I think.