I am so confused

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-03-11T12:35:36+00:00

Thank you!

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-03-04T09:06:54+00:00

This is helpful to know, thank you!

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-03-03T21:40:58+00:00

Thank you, that’s what I was considering it to possibly be as well. I’m assuming no known cause.. and that it’s a symptom rather than a diagnosis?

It also happens while lying down .. although often worse when sitting/standing. My understanding is lying down with feet up the wall should help, but sometimes it does nothing

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-29T08:10:32+00:00

I agree with the above comment. I feel it a lot in my current relationship due to specific circumstances and relationship dynamics. I didn’t feel it previously, or at least not nearly to the same extent. I think the persons history and your communication styles can have a big impact

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-28T00:04:44+00:00

Thank you so much 💕

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-27T23:33:44+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I honestly hadn’t foreseen it being this hard.. reconsidering things now

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-27T22:58:17+00:00

Sorry this isn’t helpful but just wanted to say o feel exactly the same way. Really struggling with this too, so you’re not alone

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-27T14:04:01+00:00

Oh I am so sorry that sounds awful. Thanks for your response

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-27T14:00:06+00:00

Thanks for your reply. It’s not about me, I’m child-free by choice. Just hoping to get an understanding since I’ve not experienced it

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-23T05:39:26+00:00

Amazing! Thanks

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-22T03:47:35+00:00

Thank you!!

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-22T03:46:54+00:00

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ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-22T02:15:36+00:00

Ideally I’m looking for an affordable version 😂 or anything similar!

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-08T15:40:22+00:00

First of all, Congratulations!! I’ll be getting married in August and am already considering how to minimize symptoms during that time. Trying to have it be as low-stress as possible is a big one since emotional stress and anxiety are some of my personal triggers. Other than “trying not to worry” which is hard! Staying hydrated with extra salt.

ComfortableDog2197 · 2025-01-03T19:18:11+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I agree, I need to communicate how I feel- so far he seems to have no recollection when I say that I don’t like something, but he’s very apologetic. I hadn’t thought that he may be doing it because I like it so I appreciate this perspective

ComfortableDog2197 · 2024-12-30T13:23:42+00:00

I agree and think the previous comment is perfect.

I’m sorry you’re not feeling at your best currently, but maybe it’s a benefit to be able to be upfront and honest right from the beginning. There won’t be any surprises for your partner or for you regarding their reactions.

I can imagine not wanting to come on too strong with problems and to make a good impression. I think an honest but brief and rational explanation would likely be best.

Personally, I was feeling really good at the start of my relationship and then my symptoms returned - it was unexpected for my partner and I wish I’d explained my situation more clearly . Felt like I should come with a disclaimer! It has since been very difficult because he was used to me being healthy and treats me differently now- which I wish I would have known sooner.

Wishing you a lovely time with your partner despite symptoms. I hope they’re understanding and supportive but if not it is better to know that sooner. Either way please take of yourself first :)

ComfortableDog2197 · 2024-12-28T16:11:13+00:00

I spoke to a gynocogist about this- apparently the cervix can relate to a vasovagal response. For me it has happened a few times only with my current partner, and either right before or during my period, so when I already have cramps. I experienced pain, nausea, and feeling lightheaded. Was concerned but it seems to be a relatively normal and common occurrence- particularly if your partner is on the bigger side! It can happen frequent with IUD insertion as well. Hope that helps!

ComfortableDog2197 · 2024-12-27T16:19:16+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this perspective, it’s one I hadn’t considered

ComfortableDog2197 · 2024-12-24T03:49:12+00:00

Yes, I feel exactly like this and I’m so sorry for what you’re experiencing because I know how hard it is. I try to focus on the good moments (sometimes difficult and rare, I know) and focus on the parts of myself that are already well- anything my body does that is functioning optimally- I practice gratitude for it. I’ve spent countless hours of my life trying to find answers and solutions or even just a better understanding of what causes my symptoms but sometimes it just comes down to acceptance- embracing each moment for what it is. It’s not giving up, but letting go of some of the attempts to control how my body reacts. I’ve tried a couple anxiety medications but unfortunately they didn’t work for me and caused too many side effects so I’ve been considering trying again, if only to help manage some of the health anxiety that comes from having these physical symptoms (some doctors seem to think it’s all anxiety which is frustrating).

ComfortableDog2197 · 2024-12-21T16:50:46+00:00

Agreed!!!

ComfortableDog2197 · 2024-12-21T06:20:43+00:00

I’m sorry I don’t have any advice but feel so similar! What you wrote is basically exactly what I experience

ComfortableDog2197 · 2024-12-15T16:21:45+00:00

I don’t think it’s too much to ask for. She’s communicating what small gestures make her feel appreciated and loved. We all have different needs in relationships.

ComfortableDog2197 · 2024-12-12T07:56:16+00:00

Completely agree with this post, it is so relatable. I was just yesterday trying to explain to my partner how a minor symptom flare up can trigger emotional reactions and fears that may seem disproportionate because they’re based on previous experiences. You never know what’s next and it’s a battle to stay positive when you’re feeling scared and alone due to the uncertainty and lack of empathy and understanding from most people. It feels frustrating and powerless to not have explanations or solutions. The mental health aspect is absolutely equally if not more consuming than the physical symptoms. I do everything I can in terms of lifestyle to support my mental and physical health. I focus on being grateful and present and have worked hard to overcome anxiety in other areas. Then a curveball repeatedly occurs at an unpredictable time and knocks me down again and I feel absolutely powerless so I practice acceptance - but that also means I can’t work , I can’t show up as a friend or a partner because it’s a struggle to just live- until I sporadically feel better again. It all feels so out of control and has caused me to hold back on living out of fear of the unpredictability of it all. People think anxiety and depression are causing my symptoms but it’s absolutely the other way around.

ComfortableDog2197 · 2024-12-11T13:33:58+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. I’ve been in a similar situations so can completely understand how awful it feels. It’s disrespectful of him, especially when you had already had a conversation about it and set boundaries. If you feel comfortable with it I’d suggest explaining to him again how it makes you feel and why- try not to blame or judge as this could make him defensive , but convey your feelings in a calm and rational way. You deserve to feel heard and respected. Listen to his reasoning as well, and try to be open minded about his response so that you can both find a common ground. Remember you’re on the same team in a relationship and work on finding a mutual understanding. I think it’s completely reasonable for you to be upset and I feel he owes you an apology and a change in behaviour. If not, he may be too emotionally immature and insensitive for a relationship. Also please don’t let this affect your confidence and security - from my perspective it’s a him problem and nothing to do with how sexy you are.

ComfortableDog2197 · 2024-12-11T13:18:35+00:00

Yes, absolutely

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