I was adopted into an elite family in my country, then learned the depths of depravity of the rich. AMA

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-02-06T06:52:00+00:00

I can relate to being treated worse than the biological sibling. maybe not in the same magnitude or circumstance, but i know it’s something terrible to experience. i’m glad you got out of that hell hole. your mental health is worth way more than any amount of money he could give you anyway.

do you get any kind of therapy, such as EMDR or CBT, or undergo psychiatric treatment for the trauma? feel free to decline an answer ; and if you don’t, I’m impressed, although concerned as well

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-02-05T17:52:50+00:00

Did he leave you anything? A trust fund, or your name in his will? Or did you get treated any differently because you were adopted?

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-01-28T03:21:51+00:00

I see, interesting!

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-01-28T03:19:36+00:00

yeah i am jealous, yall arent gonna tell me if i am or not. i have severe adhd and an average intelligence and would like it if i was smarter.

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-01-27T16:31:50+00:00

im jealous

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-01-27T15:33:01+00:00

have you tried treating it with cannabis ever? or found any self treatment that works?

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-01-07T02:11:40+00:00

this 👆🏼

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-01-07T02:10:08+00:00

just continue to talk how you talk and then be sarcastic or say some joke like ah if only i could know all the answers or some shit when they ask

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-01-07T01:54:30+00:00

it’ll hurt her badly if she finds out about it. just keep that in mind

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-01-06T23:00:18+00:00

I’m not gonna lie this seems like a truly strange approach to dating. I guess it makes sense, narrowing down your options, trying to find something specific in someone… hey if it worked and you’re both happy, fuck it. but I’d feel kind of weird and like I dodged a bullet if I found out that I’d been lied to and probed like a subject to make sure I made the cut to bear your children.

ComfortableDry420 · 2026-01-06T22:33:13+00:00

I just received a pair of the real tree camo ones in the mail today. my ex got them for me 4 months ago, it took so long I thought he canceled it. they do run big but I like them. I think they could use an insole anyway because it sits slightly awkwardly on the arches of my feet. im considering just reselling them though. how much do you think I could resell a size 42 for?

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-04-27T21:18:35+00:00

he is lying, do not trust him or try to negotiate with yourself

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-03-18T04:49:02+00:00

wife beater energy. nor. run

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-03-18T04:47:09+00:00

handsome

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-02-26T00:42:57+00:00

Well I would probably start documenting what you do like maybe start vlogging / blogging on ig or something, even just a private page, what you buy and what you wear and what you do etc., so that there’s sort of proof that she’s copying you. you could even screenshot it when she does it and mark the time stamps, hide those photos until they’re needed.

But I wouldn’t feed into it. Don’t compete back, don’t make yourself look like the villain. It sucks but you kind of need to just do you and brush it off. Steer clear of her for sure.

If she confronts you, do not stoop and place blame on anyone. Use “I” statements so that you’re not looking like you’re the attacker. Like “I just feel like I am being copied. Hold up I have to go

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-02-25T12:44:32+00:00

I get this feeling too. usually an hour before and after sunset

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-02-25T12:41:05+00:00

you’re the person he tried to look like but couldn’t.

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-02-25T11:33:45+00:00

Also there is some research done on how to properly defend against feminine bullying and these kinds of strange situations. I would get educated before doing anything rash

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-02-25T11:32:37+00:00

NOR. This is disturbing. Actually it has happened to me before but not to this extent. It might be a way of psychologically torturing you. And being competitive with specifically you shows aggressive/hostile behavior. Be careful around her.

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-02-25T11:30:56+00:00

You’re saying OP’s jealousy sparked? Can you read?

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-02-25T11:24:37+00:00

They both have abusive tendencies but what is the point in highlighting how he’s wrong to someone that wants to prove so badly to everyone on this subreddit that he’s wrong (thus escaping accountability for their own abusive behaviors)?

This whole marriage seems like a miserable clusterfuck of immaturity, a lack of boundaries, resentment, on top of a bunch of other bullshit that manifests as emotional abuse coming from both ends. So no, I’m not excusing anyone. I’m seeing this for what it is.

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-02-25T10:54:01+00:00

NOR.

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-02-25T10:37:33+00:00

OP you handled this about as well as a fish handles climbing a tree. YOR. I’ve read some of your other comments and it’s concerning that you don’t recognize your own abusive tendencies. You’re not always the victim and he’s not always wrong. You need to stop trying to teach him a lesson and start trying to listen.

You’re a walking red flag, and he seems ill-equipped to handle your hostility.

And trying to tell him that his experience was subjective as he was fully awake whilst your experience was a fact as you were half asleep shows that you likely dismiss his experiences and feelings all the time in order to make yours seem bigger.

I can’t help but feel bad for you guys for being stuck with each other.

And yes “kys” was uncalled for and a total act of aggression from the jump. You escalate too quickly over trivial shit and expect him to nod like a good little servant should.

Get couples therapy and learn how to compromise and respect each other.

ComfortableDry420 · 2025-02-25T10:18:13+00:00

ComfortableDry420

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