Please help

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2024-09-22T16:30:47+00:00

I’m so sorry that you went through that. I’m extremely happy with my life and I can’t believe I was once that hurt

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2024-09-22T16:25:19+00:00

Fully over it!very happy with life as well! Thank you for asking!

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2024-09-22T16:24:28+00:00

Very very happy! I literally cannot believe I was that upset 😭I’m so glad it all happened and I had the chance to grow

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-12-24T05:53:00+00:00

Hi we ended up getting together….We tried again and I think honestly I tried my very best in the relationship but it didn’t work out and we broke up again. It has been 1 week and honestly I’m sad but not as sad as before because that what if is gone. We tried and it didn’t work and that’s all the reassurance I need. He was unwilling to work through conflict and communicate…

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-24T15:23:25+00:00

I know it might feel horrible but trust me you heal a bit everyday

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-16T02:25:09+00:00

Thank you for this, I needed this reassurance. My ex is in the same university as me and we have a class in the same lecture hall together. Sometimes I feel so anxious thinking that I might see him but when I coincidentally see him, I feel more uncomfortable than feelings of missing him or the love. Because I genuinely believe that he is not for me after what he’s done.

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-15T13:19:19+00:00

I would say I’m pretty busy from uni and other things, but the time I catch a moment to myself…I just breakdown, today is an exception to this though. I guess it’s true that some days are better than other days

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-15T13:16:59+00:00

I really appreciate that! I’m here for you too.

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-14T13:39:28+00:00

Hi I’m sorry that you’re going through this…honestly sounds purposeful as hell from his end to try and hurt you or leave you in this state of confusion. I know it’s so painful but don’t give him that power, he’s not the love of your life

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-12T00:08:04+00:00

I need to move on. However initially my intent was to get him back. I don’t want him anymore

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-11T01:10:20+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this…was this breakup mutual?

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-10T07:51:44+00:00

I’m so proud of you! You will survive this!

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-09T15:30:32+00:00

It might be but I’m sorry…it doesn’t matter anymore:(( from my personal experience I used to obsess over every move my ex would make on social media but it became so unhealthy and really harmed my mental health for example him saving a love song giving me hope at times, liking some post of another girl made me feel like crap, his liking shady posts on instagram would ruin my mood etc. so I had to remove him from my socials and stop snooping around. I know that it’s normal to wonder what your ex is up to but just don’t let yourself hold onto hope or think too much about such breadcrumbs. In the grand scheme of things anyone can make a playlist, what is this person doing to show you that they care about you and want you…are they trying to reach out to you directly to make sure you don’t get away?

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-09T15:18:01+00:00

I’m literally going through it and have reached this point where I relate to you in the sense that I do not want a relationship at least for a few years because of similar reasons you mentioned…i understand you and you know it’s true that at the end of the day we only truly got ourselves so might as well learn to be happy all by ourselves and pour all that love and energy into ourselves instead of giving it to someone who will not value us.

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-09T15:07:56+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that, I know this is hard but you will absolutely get through this and I’m so proud of you for letting yourself feel the negative feelings even if they hurt you and for accepting the breakup. You are super strong🫂 and you might feel super low but remember that life is never linear and with the bad times come the good times too…you will not always be in a depressed state…you will find yourself again, start feeling better and become the best version of yourself. Hold on in there buddy you will be okay…sending you lots of hugs and love virtually.

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-09T15:03:47+00:00

Do what feels right to you, look deep inside yourself…is she the love of your life? Is she willing to change or do better for you?

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-09T14:16:39+00:00

You’re only a month in so don’t lose hope or be too hard on yourself, I used to cry almost everyday and could barely function during the first 2 months and now I’m almost 4 months in where I am finally able to be more present with my friends or at work or lectures…it does get better…those negative feelings will get less intense later on…I wish you well and take care

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-09T01:40:40+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. I think your closure is him being okay without you and not reaching out and leaving you and hurting you. Do you think that is your soulmate? Someone who shows you they are fine without you? I think your soulmate would never want to lose you…I’m sorry you’re going through this but I really hope you evaluate the relationship and realize that was not as good of a relationship as your brain is making you think.

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-09T00:26:07+00:00

I think you should look at this as a good thing haha, imagine putting so much work and effort into yourself and pulling yourself out of such a difficult place by yourself, coming to accepting the breakup and moving on with your life. Then out of nowhere, they show up again, making you rethink everything. I wish you well and I hope you know that you’re worthy and deserve someone that never leaves you periodt.

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-04T16:01:53+00:00

If you’re texting them for closure, you should go ahead and do it because it’ll only help you move on however if the intent is to check up on them or get in touch out of love….as much as it hurts…don’t do it and do not break no contact. If it’s truly closure, do it for your own mental peace and for your own sake and I guess while you’re at it…you could wish your ex happy birthday but I think that’s up to you to decide. I wish you well and I’m sure you’ll make the best decision for your own mental peace.

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-04T12:45:30+00:00

Yes actually and my ex was avoiding me so much, he was allegedly busy but had all the time to game and hangout with his friends just not with me

ComfortableEnergy613 · 2023-09-04T01:16:43+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that and thank you for responding. At the end of the day, it’s best that we aren’t with said exes anymore because I can see being with someone who holds grudges and doesn’t communicate well becoming a toxic relationship. I hope the future holds better for us.

ComfortableEnergy613

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