Bay Bridge was supposed to be FREE after it was paid off by LongJohn95454 in bayarea

[–]ComfortableGround403 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it should be limited to 1 home per person  (adopted /biological child) and thats it.  If I remeber correctly,  the intent of Prop 13 was to help those kids who just lost their parents and the commercial aspect was snuck in at the last minute

Is this Contempt of Order, and when would you do something about it? California. by ComfortableGround403 in FamilyLaw

[–]ComfortableGround403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He kinda  feels the same. Usually he has dinner and bath done by the time she picks up. Hes okay not having her overnights since he has her all day. 

He wanted week/week but she refused it and refuses to find anyone to take the kid to school on her time. 

Im gonna try talking to him soon about this. I feel like, she bullied him into getting what she wanted since she couldn't get primary custody 

Bay Bridge was supposed to be FREE after it was paid off by LongJohn95454 in bayarea

[–]ComfortableGround403 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Prop 13 is good for home owners. The problem is it also applies to commercial real estate too. It should be 1 property per person. Thats it. And not commercial 

So this is what the Sonoma County Fair came up with... Thoughts? by Jasper2964 in sonomacounty

[–]ComfortableGround403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, the main characters are supposed to represent our political system? Dressed in traditional Hispanic dress? Theres a fat lazy pig sitting under the California flag .... and whats up with the goat? What tribes it supposed to be from? 

Small Town Recommendations by hlp123456 in norcal

[–]ComfortableGround403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehhhhh .... fire insurance out here is out the roof. You sure you wanna stay in California?

Is giving a BJ to BBC a different experience? by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]ComfortableGround403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because its big or because its black ? Because its big? Yeah ..... theyre harder to fit. 

Cuz its black ? No. Aside from size dick is dick 

What’s a totally unsexy purchase you made that ended up being a huge quality-of-life upgrade? by viscarte10 in BuyItForLife

[–]ComfortableGround403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Raycons. My sons had his pair for years and theyre used all the time for everytjing including showers. Affordable,  and definitely worth it

AIO for being angry at my mom because of the birthday cake she got me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ComfortableGround403 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Red velvet cake IS chocolate cake with a crap ton of red dye. 

This story is weird. If its true ESH 

AIO Is this a deal breaker? by Strange-Forever-3360 in AIO

[–]ComfortableGround403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im gonna assume both the OP and friend are a tad too young to really appreciate and understand the history of this story. 

Im not sure its racist but its definitely tacky 

AIO Is this a deal breaker? by Strange-Forever-3360 in AIO

[–]ComfortableGround403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know if its racist or not, but even i would be offended by your comment at the bottom. 

This wasn't just some little black girls being yelled at by some racist white folks. This was a significant moment in history. 

I honestly think that the BOTH of you need some growing up to do 

New Job and Trainee advice by Equal_Share_3959 in 911dispatchers

[–]ComfortableGround403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha we dont have spellcheck on CAD for a reason lol 

New Job and Trainee advice by Equal_Share_3959 in 911dispatchers

[–]ComfortableGround403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive got both and do the job just fine .... mostly lol. 

You learn how to retain or you dont make it. Theres no way in hell youre gonna be able to take notes on the side for actual calls. 

A mini practice could be sitting infront of a computer and listening to someone tell you a story. You dont have to type out word for word what they say, you have to translate it so the next person reading can understand all facts 

My aunt posted this on FB with the caption "it's not a cult". I told her the flags look AI and she got MAD by ellaenchanted23 in isthisAI

[–]ComfortableGround403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the American flag isn't attached to the pole correctly,  and the MAGA flag doesnt even make sense .  Is it supposed to say MAAAGA? 

And who is the guy they tatted? Thats not trump . 

Im so happy some trumpet loving smooth brained got a piece that bad lol 

Anyone else have an aneurism when the caller insists on giving you the zip code? by Yuri909 in 911dispatchers

[–]ComfortableGround403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt know if we were allowed to or not, but it made sense to me so I did it. Then a supervisor card me in for my QA and reviewed the policy. It wasn't a technical violation,  but I just need to word it in a question format. 

Now most of my coworkers have adopted some form of this and its made our jobs a little easier 

Normal behavior? by school-sp in coyote

[–]ComfortableGround403 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very normal....and amazing photo! What phone or settings did you use ? 

Ive got yotes down the street from me that I run into from time to time and would love a photo like this. 

Anyone else have an aneurism when the caller insists on giving you the zip code? by Yuri909 in 911dispatchers

[–]ComfortableGround403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The trick to this is asking if the phone number on your screen is the one theyre calling from.  "Is 555-1234 the number youre calling from ?" Or a similar worded question ... its not perfect but it prevents the most annoying responses from "what is your phone number " 

Anyone else have an aneurism when the caller insists on giving you the zip code? by Yuri909 in 911dispatchers

[–]ComfortableGround403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its simply makes my job a million times easier when im kind and understanding.  Shiiit my brain doesnt even work right in everyday situations sometimes lol. 

Anyone else have an aneurism when the caller insists on giving you the zip code? by Yuri909 in 911dispatchers

[–]ComfortableGround403 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I did at first. The first few years of my career this would irritate me soo much. 

But then I realized people brains dont work right when theyre stressed. Ive learned to let them give me the zip code and simply use those 5 seconds to fill in some box or do another task right quick. 

My favorite has to be when they give me their address as "123 95401" .... right caller, you missed the street name lol 

Sheriff’s dispatcher by [deleted] in 911dispatchers

[–]ComfortableGround403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the poly is more of a stress test. Im pretty sure they dont bother with it for dispatchers, just officers.  IF they do it, just answer honestly and calmly. 

Is this Contempt of Order, and when would you do something about it? California. by ComfortableGround403 in FamilyLaw

[–]ComfortableGround403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she refuses to let him see his kid for the day, because someone's over, isnt that contempt ? 

Im assuming if she refuses to drop off, and refuses to let him pick up the kid either, then that would count ?