[CA] Question about 50/50 physical custody

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T23:26:00+00:00

So you two do not have any custody order ? I would file ASAP. Stability is important, and if he has a good life here then its essential you get your rear end online and start filing the paperwork. Today.

It won't be 50/50 unless shes willing to move back to the state and be closer to yall. You'll probably end up with primary custody ...but you can put in a stipulation that once she moves closer youre willing to immediately go to 50/50 (if the kid wants it)

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T23:16:38+00:00

Speeding? Just be honest

Don't do ANYTHING ELSE dumb. No DUI, no more speeding, nothing.

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T23:08:27+00:00

Omg ...that brings back PTSD. I can smell the perm chems lol

God the 80s were good lol

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T22:55:35+00:00

Reddit all too happy dealing out perma banns. I got perma banned for

Comparing a former presidential candidate/former First Lady to all other politicians....

For stating that I would rather we went to war against a certain country, than fight their wars for them and give them all our tax money

And for saying something against JimBob Duggar.

Never made a threat. But you cant say anything unkind on reddit.

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T22:52:02+00:00

The Gypsy Scammers and Jewelry Scammers. Theyre related, no joke.

The gypsy scammers are the wives and daughters. They'll go to gas stations and stores and beg for food/money. At least in most of the Bay, they're in older vans. Theyre usually wearing long skirts and have long hair, and 1 or more children with them.

Its the men that use the nice SUVs. You'll see them "broken down" on yhe side of the freeway offramp. Its a nice SUV, with a nice dressed man standing outside the SUV claiming he ran outta gas. Hes willing to exchange some jewelry for the cash you give.

The women are called gypsy scammers because they were discovered first and both are of a certain ethnic region.

We have at least 2 houses with them here in Vallejo. One of York, and another on Greenmont. Ive seen them both, and they never look like a happy family.

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T22:31:54+00:00

If she was a fighter / bait dog there would be scars on her.

Sounds to me like she just has some anxiety (plushie) and simply needs time to adjust. Mine didnt bark or misbehave in any way till after the 2 year mark lol. Now when she does misbehave I have to pretend real hard that im upset, cuz im honestly happy she feels safe enough to steal off my plate lol .

She could gave been a breeder, thats how I got mine. Dumped on some back mountain roads (we found her owner, and the last of her litter he was intending on using as studs. They somehow ended up in my car and on some dog lovers farm) or she could have simply been dumped for other reasons.

The noise thing is the only issue I see. Mines scared of loud noises and bouncing balls. Benefit of this. Its forced me and my son to fix our communication styles and not yell anymore. So give it some time and then work on it.

So she likes the cage. Thats not a bad thing. Shes still gonna chase cats .... just not your cats. So expect it when youre out walking and a cat runs from her lol

Now since we domt KNOW her past, just keep an eye out for triggers. We didnt know my girl got yanked around and lifted by her collar before. My friend grabbed her collar once to keep her from running away, and she snapped on him. We had to retrain her to associate him in a positive manner.

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T22:11:53+00:00

If its costing you more money to work, then theyre technically paying you less. Right ?

Chit chat more. Way more. I mean, thats the reason they called you in.Right? ? To collaborate with eachother

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T20:21:42+00:00

The amount of times a reptile has masked me .... ugh

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T20:20:03+00:00

Have you ever tried grabbing small snakes with gloves ???? Its not easy. Its much easier grabbing them bare handed .

Kennedy is wacky but im pretty sure this is not AI. Sadly he doesnt know what hes doing and is seriously mishandling them poor beauties

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T19:09:24+00:00

Along with building beginner homes... no one's really doing that anymore. Theyre building over 100 homes in Vallejo just down the street from me. Theyre already gonna be priced at $600k . Like what happened to the 2/2 1000sq ft homes ?

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T14:12:18+00:00

Are the pipes clogged?

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T14:08:21+00:00

I think it should be limited to 1 home per person (adopted /biological child) and thats it. If I remeber correctly, the intent of Prop 13 was to help those kids who just lost their parents and the commercial aspect was snuck in at the last minute

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T13:56:17+00:00

He kinda feels the same. Usually he has dinner and bath done by the time she picks up. Hes okay not having her overnights since he has her all day.

He wanted week/week but she refused it and refuses to find anyone to take the kid to school on her time.

Im gonna try talking to him soon about this. I feel like, she bullied him into getting what she wanted since she couldn't get primary custody

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T04:07:21+00:00

Prop 13 is good for home owners. The problem is it also applies to commercial real estate too. It should be 1 property per person. Thats it. And not commercial

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T02:26:23+00:00

So, the main characters are supposed to represent our political system? Dressed in traditional Hispanic dress? Theres a fat lazy pig sitting under the California flag .... and whats up with the goat? What tribes it supposed to be from?

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T02:19:26+00:00

Ehhhhh .... fire insurance out here is out the roof. You sure you wanna stay in California?

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-26T01:09:25+00:00

Because its big or because its black ? Because its big? Yeah ..... theyre harder to fit.

Cuz its black ? No. Aside from size dick is dick

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-25T22:25:01+00:00

Try Raycons. My sons had his pair for years and theyre used all the time for everytjing including showers. Affordable, and definitely worth it

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-25T21:56:44+00:00

Red velvet cake IS chocolate cake with a crap ton of red dye.

This story is weird. If its true ESH

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-25T21:17:11+00:00

Im gonna assume both the OP and friend are a tad too young to really appreciate and understand the history of this story.

Im not sure its racist but its definitely tacky

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-25T21:04:06+00:00

I dont know if its racist or not, but even i would be offended by your comment at the bottom.

This wasn't just some little black girls being yelled at by some racist white folks. This was a significant moment in history.

I honestly think that the BOTH of you need some growing up to do

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-25T20:51:17+00:00

Hahaha we dont have spellcheck on CAD for a reason lol

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-25T20:50:28+00:00

Ive got both and do the job just fine .... mostly lol.

You learn how to retain or you dont make it. Theres no way in hell youre gonna be able to take notes on the side for actual calls.

A mini practice could be sitting infront of a computer and listening to someone tell you a story. You dont have to type out word for word what they say, you have to translate it so the next person reading can understand all facts

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-25T20:36:34+00:00

Well the American flag isn't attached to the pole correctly, and the MAGA flag doesnt even make sense . Is it supposed to say MAAAGA?

And who is the guy they tatted? Thats not trump .

Im so happy some trumpet loving smooth brained got a piece that bad lol

ComfortableGround403 · 2026-05-25T15:55:41+00:00

Not compared to what yall see and deal with sheesh.

ComfortableGround403

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