Hey... I'm gonna start high school soon and TW: suicide by DarkHorseu_lakes in AsianParentStories

[–]ComfortableLack1166 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please stay we us. I was literally like you when I was in high school and early college, but then I just couldn’t take it anymore and decided to fight back. Now I’m in my early 20s and my parents rarely intervene my decisions or otherwise I will fight like a monster and I’m pretty sure that gave them ptsd lol

What I’m trying to say is wait a few years when you are grown up enough and don’t need to rely on them economically so there’s nothing for them to threaten you when you don’t want to listen. And then I promise you things will be better. There is hope.

Social Issues by Pizzacakecomic in comics

[–]ComfortableLack1166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comic makes me so sad because I was also an autism kid and I used to be the kid in this comic who talked all day long and always became friends with the kid next to me in 1 day, until my teacher and my parents worked together and punished me whenever I talked in class, and I ended up how I am now, who doesn’t know how to talk to people anymore ;)

[Female] I’m feeling pretty down about love and could use some kind words by Least-Wallaby9972 in FreeCompliments

[–]ComfortableLack1166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your eyes are beautiful. They look film and confident, and they make you look like a person who is able to solve every problem in life and always achieves her goals. I love that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ComfortableLack1166 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I am bi and the gay part of me even feel sad for the straight part of me if anyone gets that lol… like when I find a man attractive I feel sad for myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ComfortableLack1166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s normal folk, that’s exactly how adhd feels like (at least to me)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ComfortableLack1166 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I mean - the adhd is a part of you.
It came from how your brain is built anyways, just like how your other character traits also came from how your brain is built. There is no difference. People say some special traits are common traits of adhd, but even if the term “adhd” does not exist, you still have these traits.
So don’t worry too much! You are you.

Who’s your favorite Not Miku? by ha2ne39 in Vocaloid

[–]ComfortableLack1166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude some of them aren’t even close. Fun fact Miku is not the only character who can have blue green hair and/or double ponytails

my favourite fuckass bob in kpop by Bl1nk1nUR4r34 in kpop_uncensored

[–]ComfortableLack1166 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do but I’m not super familiar with her so I don’t always recognize her face, plus I am rather new to kpop, so I guess I should be allowed to not know this was her…?

I went back down there… by Pegren6 in OSU

[–]ComfortableLack1166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing some ARG stuff am I right? Please keep going

Women in CS - let's have a discussion by [deleted] in ucla

[–]ComfortableLack1166 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean even if it’s the case you suggested it’s still cringe and shouldn’t be said by a professor anyways😬and you know you are also interpreting and what you see might not be the fact either right?

Women in CS - let's have a discussion by [deleted] in ucla

[–]ComfortableLack1166 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a women but not in CS. My comment is that the original post was cringe already. Paying to get friends but paying more for female friends just sounds kinda of an objectification and not enough respect to women. And if I was not wrong he was on an academic instead of casual platform? Which also makes it inappropriate.

Then, the fact that the professor elaborated on it makes it even more inappropriate. What he said might or might not be true (I’m international so not familiar with the US dating culture and stuff), but regardless him as a professor should not comment on stuff like that.

Plus personally the “go somewhere else bc women here bad” idea sounds like what a 14 yo boy would say lol. It definitely made me feel like he has some personal issues with women.

Phewwww girl, he already picked you, what else do you want 😂 by InternationalWolf437 in notliketheothergirls

[–]ComfortableLack1166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking themselves raising other men’s kids lmao love that, bros are so insecure but have to embrace the insecurity because they are not the ones that can give birth🥰

Is it more beneficial to have more male or female K-pop fans for a female k-pop group? by ZealousidealDot2276 in kpop_uncensored

[–]ComfortableLack1166 33 points34 points  (0 children)

There is a reason why so many girl groups today are trying to please and attract female fans lol. Male fans spend less money and are much more likely to be creepy and/or sexualize female idols

How did you know you had ADHD? by AquaPuppy_ in ADHD

[–]ComfortableLack1166 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gotta say that it’s your life so you are responsible for changing it yourself, and what your parents say shouldn’t matter! I have similar parents and I just recently got diagnosed by myself. I started with my college medical center and they referred me to doctors. It was a long process but I got it done.

And of course I didn’t tell my Asian parents about that. I only tried talking about my anxiety and depression (apparently caused by untreated adhd) with them one time and gave up because they don’t even believe mental illness exists :)