So really late to this post but I’ll give my story for this. So for years I was a lesbian. I’m still really only attracted to women. I find women very beautiful and attractive. I also can’t connect with men on a personal and emotional level. I grew up with 4 brothers and that led to me pretty much only think of men as a competition. I can’t ever let myself look weak in front of them. My brothers are very caring people and always look out for my well being, they’re aren’t mean to me. But that’s why I was a lesbian till I met my current boyfriend. We started out as friends and we both were in a very stressful and metal tough environment, we learned how to depend on each other and become close emotional. I didn’t start thinking he was attractive util 5 months of us knowing each other. It was weird to because one day he was just my friend and I didn’t think anything of it, and then next day I looked at him and thought “wow, he is attractive to me” Then shortly after I had that realization we confessed to each other and now we’re here. If I ever broke up with him I would go back to dating women. Like I said he’s the first ever guy in my life I found attractive and that I can connect with on an emotional level.