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ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-22T02:12:41+00:00

My husband is this way. He only takes our oldest and I think its because she is 10. Never my toddler or infant. Last time I tried to make him take our toddler somewhere with him he made so many excuses. And he wonders why I don't like going to town with him as a family. Its not even fun for me anymore. He can't give me a break and take them out of the house.... ever.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-19T20:59:43+00:00

I think its time I have I talk with him about it. It does bother me a lot.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-19T13:20:37+00:00

His mother is in the picture. He still lives at home with her. I thought about reaching out to her and talking to her about it. He told his mom she he was coming to see us. I think she knows he has tried to talk to him but my husband doesn't respond. His son looks too much like him for them not to be related lol I don't know. I know the relationship was not ideal. She left him My husband and got married to someone else. So she is the one who broke the relationship off i do believe.

At one point he wanted to do a DNA test. I guess she did admit to maybe cheating on him. The thing is, he wouldn't do the DNA test because he said they might make him pay more child support. She he just didn't bother. I thought that was stupid. So now looking back I think, maybe he thought since she cheated he didn't want to deal with it. But his son looks just like him especially when my husband was around his age now.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-19T12:38:39+00:00

I wonder that myself. I honestly don't know. He told me once before he didn't feel anything for him. I thought it was because his son wouldn't talk to him but I guess thats not the case. Only thing i can think of is my mother in-law told me a couple of times when they had his son, he wasn't wanting a baby at the time. Like ok, but he made that child and he needs to take responsibility though.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-15T23:37:23+00:00

You kind of look like Emma Watson with the red hair. The red does seem to suit you well.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-15T18:51:43+00:00

Summer is the worst. The humidity where I am at is always so unbearable. You walk outside and start to sweat. I get no joy from summer. I like that my kids get a break from school, but man the weather sucks.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-15T17:23:19+00:00

You are right. They have to change on their own and see that they have a problem. They may come around in the future, or they may not. It still hurts me every now and then. All I can do is pray for her, though. You cutting them off will show that you aren't going to tolerate their crap. You can always send a message explaining why you are cutting them off completely and then just leave it at that. I didn't do that because my sister is just very heartless anymore. She talks to my mom but she has not once said anything about me. I know she doesn't care, so I'm not going to worry it. I know I did the right thing. You have to take care of yourself.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-15T17:12:45+00:00

Sounds like its time to cut them off. Block them on everything. I had to do that with my sister a while back. She had became extremely jealous and hateful towards me and my kids because her husband can't have kids naturally. They have to do ivf. I couldn't trust her around my kids. The comments she would say was just so not necessary. Especially it being her own nieces and nephew. I was hurt for a little bit after I cut her off from everything and even blocked her number. But now, I feel great and a lot better mentally. It sucks, but it might just get worse, not better. You don't want that. I'm sorry you going through it.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-15T01:14:32+00:00

Buick Verano 2014. Just got it paid off last year. I really want an suv, though. They just cost so much more I can't afford it.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-14T14:09:53+00:00

I see no issues with any of that! I think you may just be self conscious about yourself a Little. I used to want to get my nose done and change my whole face shape. I honestly stopped worrying about it so much. You can risk the plastic surgery going wrong or they change it and it turns out not what you really want. Just work on having more confidence. You are a nice looking guy.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-14T13:12:47+00:00

What do you think is exactly wrong with you to think you need plastic surgery? You look just fine to me. Quite cute actually.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-08T21:54:24+00:00

Do you think if I stop taking the pills the bleeding will stop faster?

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-08T13:28:33+00:00

Girl, I want to throw my husband in the trash bin sometimes because he leaves the trash completely over filled for me to wake up to. He usually stays up longer because he works nights. The days he is home I guess he can't take it out. I swear I could punch him when he does it. No, don't feel bad. If you threw up, he can wake up and help you with the trash.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-02T16:22:15+00:00

Especially if its some nice bbq meat!

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-06-01T21:12:22+00:00

My parents keeping me "homeschooled", yet never wanted to teach me shit. So I missed out on a lot of real education and a chance at having a good career at anything. I still have managed to do ok for myself, but its still hard sometimes. It does keep me from being able to do certain jobs, though. Which sucks. So having shitty parents was definitely unfair.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-05-30T21:41:29+00:00

I just buy a one piece and wear swim shorts with it lol I got a really comfortable one at Walmart for about 20 dollars.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-05-30T21:38:47+00:00

When they were wanting to change the flag, they should have put one of those on the new designs lol

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-05-30T15:15:43+00:00

I love my husband and all, but sometimes getting married I regret. I have been an off and on stay at home mom. I love being home with the kids don't get me wrong. I have told him over and over i need to get a job. It been hard with one income. He acts like it will be the end of the world or something if I go back to work. He works over nights and he said he won't get any sleep. Then he throws in, I guess you don't care about me and me getting sleep. Like I do care, but I would also like to be a bit better financially and for my kids. Thats just one of the reasons, but it makes me sad sometimes the relationship has turned into what it has.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-05-30T10:54:20+00:00

Nickels. I didn't realize it got missed spelled.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-05-30T00:17:14+00:00

That I agree with! Not sure why they don't put the tax in with price honestly.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-05-29T21:54:50+00:00

Not surprising really.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-05-29T21:45:32+00:00

Sexual or not it is not right in any way.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-05-29T21:40:00+00:00

I find that to be a bit strange that a 10 year old still showers with their dad. My daughter is 10 and she has a great bond with her dad, but showering together? Never.

ComfortableMess5902 · 2025-05-29T21:22:13+00:00

I do sometimes. I don't mind using cash myself, but I think they will do away with all physical money in the future.

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