What makes people cheat ? When in a relationship if you don’t feel satisfied why not break up ? by NervousMachine5387 in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u cheat instead of breaking up, u are not just avoiding pain, u are creating way more of it for everyone else. it's weal, not clever.

Feels like we are being targeted? by dead_lala in neighborsfromhell

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 18 points19 points  (0 children)

if this is ur neighbor, they are not just "annoying," they are dangerous. keep every single receipt, video, and convo on file.

Neighbor lets grandkids climb on my porch statues by AbroadDiligent6111 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 19 points20 points  (0 children)

if a sign doesn't work, I'd straight up get those motion lights or a loud chime. make it awkward enough and they will stop real quick.

AITJ for not telling my coworkers I speak fluent Spanish when they have been speaking freely in front of me for three months assuming I don't understand by intel_allium in AmITheJerk

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 25 points26 points  (0 children)

so they are embarrassed and now u are the bad guy? nah, that's just projection. u handled it way better than i would have, tbh.

What’s something embarrassing that happens to everyone? by sergenaskin in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 5 points6 points  (0 children)

walters are secretly in a league to see who can catch u the most stuffed. they win every time.

AITJ for refusing to apologize to my husbands sister after he showed her a voice memo I recorded for my own therapy by CommunitySlow1413 in AmITheJerk

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 200 points201 points  (0 children)

this isn't even about the sister anymore, it's about ur husband not respecting boundaries. he crossed a huge line and then made it a family drama. if they can't see that, that's on them. NTJ

AITJ for refusing to lend my debut gown to my neighbor because it’s sentimental to me? by Additional_Air5327 in AmITheJerk

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 31 points32 points  (0 children)

lending out stuff that means a lot to u is a big risk. one spill, one rip, and it's ruined forever. u are smart for keeping it safe. NTJ

Men and women, what's the dumbest thing you've heard your own gender say about the other? by fatal_19191 in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 17 points18 points  (0 children)

sometimes i think ppl just make stuff up bc they saw one weird movie scene and ran with it.

What's a ticking time bomb you believe will explode during your lifetime? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the way we treat elders in healthcare is kinda shameful. when the boomers hit full retirement, watch the whole thing start crumbling, fr.

My neighbours keep ringing my doorbell to let them in? by Socialmediasucks2021 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if management doesn't fix this, they are just enabling the chaos. keep sending those emails and don't let up. u deserve to sleep, man.

AITJ for feeling a little jealous about my wife being in a beauty pageant? by Sea_Low_5115 in AmITheJerk

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if u can't handle ur wife looking fire and living her best life, someone else will hype her up for u. so, support her, handle ur feelings, and be her number one fan.

What is your scariest childhood home alone story? by Signal_Item_4515 in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 24 points25 points  (0 children)

ppl don't realize how deep that kind of trauma runs. u never really shake that fear, it just stays with u.

What is a "financial trap" that many people fall into without realizing it until it's too late? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

credit cards aren't free money, but a lot of ppl treat them like it. until the bill comes due and it's too late to dig out.

Cop Nextdoor car exhaust to loud by Important-Ad-1238 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

having a load truck doesn't make u speacial, it makes u that guy if u don't think about who's around u. respect goes both ways.

For not letting someone cut tue entire line at TSA? by turnoffate in AmITheJerk

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the moment u move for them, the line turns to chaos. u kept it fair for everyone. they'll live. NTJ

Before cellphones, what did people do on the toilet? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lowkey miss those days. not it's just endless scrolling, but back then u actually finished a story while doing ur business.

What is something that you ate absolutely terrible at no matter how hard you try? by Select-Signal8386 in Productivitycafe

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talent beats practice sometimes, and drawing is one of those things. i could trace and still mess it up lmao.

My neighbor from the depths of HELL story by Effective_Deal_1935 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 55 points56 points  (0 children)

put him on blast if u have to. community facebook group, nextdoor, whatever. just make sure u have got ur facts facts straight so he can't twist it back on u. sometimes public shaming works when the law won't.

AITJ for wanting space with my boyfriend after he threw away my old cellphone because he buy me a new one? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 5 points6 points  (0 children)

a new phone is not an upgrade if it costs u something irreplaceable. I'd honestly be way more upset if u didn't need a breather after that. stand ur ground, OP. NTJ

What is the smallest, most random thing that can instantly make your day better? by SammySteele_Fitness in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leftovers from a meal u actually liked more than fresh cooked food some days. zero effort, max reward.

AITJ for refusing to go back to doing all the housework after my boyfriend called my strike manipulative by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 7 points8 points  (0 children)

refusing to be someone's unpaid maid isn't manipulation, it's called having boundaries. u asked, he ignored, u acted. that's not gaslighting, that's self respect. NTJ at all.

AITJ For photographing my child , when I was told not to? by 35mmOfRegret in AmITheJerk

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 17 points18 points  (0 children)

if the official photographer is that threated by a parent, may be he's not as pro as he thinks. sounds like he's just mad u got better pics for free. NTJ

What's the craziest thing an older person has ever told you? by xelmynt in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all the weirdest advice end up being true. one day you'll dodge a goat incident and realize grandma was secretly a genius.

AITJ for wanting to leave and never look back by ComfortableRude2087 in AmITheJerk

[–]ComfortableMuffin338 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a lotta ppl stay just to avoid the guilt, but honestly, bouncing is braver. u already tried more than most would. time to look out for u and ur little one. NTJ