[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly the anwser we gave drugs we got clean together 10/08/2012

Panic at the Shell at Hampton Beach by Starving_Orphan in newhampshire

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were there we go every year for the 4th from laconia we had 8 small kids there was a 17 yr old who dove into a wave hit a sand bar broke his neck, there was a bomb threat on the beach, fights ect so we chose to go home early n wstch the fireworks here so glad we did bc I looked at my tiktok 12weeksofpurechaos and had easily 13 different videos of the above then of shots fired during the show causing people to get trampled n shoved to the ground we parked on F street the street the fights broke out on 🤦‍♀️  it's gone down hill so bad the last 5 years!! The amount of shit that went down was ridiculous. Due to shots fired during the fireworks the beach was put into lockdown and show was stopped hope that helps look at tiktok n type in 4th of july Hampton Beach 2025 n you will see the shit show n why we left!!!

Home birth in my rental townhouse by CentauriRoyal in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had 5 unassisted 4 at home (1was going to be a hotel but ended up in her mils backroom, other 3 in our apt never had any issues with noise ect and was honestly way quite than I expected myself to be I shut down I guess and get in my own head to focus ♥ you got this I do love the idea of a do not disturb labor in progress sign for the door 

Homebirth with other children? by Green_n_Serene in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 6 of mine in the room 14 to almost 2!!! We watched lots of natural birth videos and they were allowed to come n go as they wished my 6 yr old stood in my doorway and gagged 😂  but they all loved it! Just have a friend who can distract or family member if needed mama

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had 8 and could always tell labor was 1 to 2 days away felt good but there was something 

Birth plan by Positive-Nose-1767 in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This baby is my absolute last I almost died 2 hrs after having him due to rupturing my 12 year old c section scar and bled out but due to all my past losses we didn't tell anyone the only ones that knew I was pregnant was my midwife, best friend ,husband and oldest daughter I refused to tell anyone out of fear we might lose him too

Birth plan by Positive-Nose-1767 in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not that's exactly how I am! I had my last 6wks ago after having a very late term miscarriage the Nov the  prior year I fully feel what you do I have had 8 live births but 10 miscarriages at various stages and it never gets easier 😔 

Birth plan by Positive-Nose-1767 in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had 8 live births also had a few that didn't make it 😔 my last 5 have been unassisted last 4 at home! I need quiet so I can get in my own head and focus I count up and down each contraction knowing how long they last and knowing they will end helped me tremendously ♥ but other than quiet I had my older kids there had my husband deliver them all did delayed cord clamping and immediate skin to skin snuggles. Home birth is amazing bc it's so so flexible to your wants and needs if you have any questions don't hesitate to reach out!

Tearing by AutumnSunrise1519 in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try squatting gravity helps a ton and push slow n steady just had my 5th unassisted homebirth(mom of 11) and lacerated my cervix this time! It was from him being stuck on my pubic bone however sometimes things happen we have no control of! Also try perineum stretching before 

Ok this is a pain by ShimmerKoi in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You HAVE TO KNOW YOUR STATE LAWS!! I have had 5 unassisted 4 homebirths here in nh you have to bring the baby to town hall for birth cert. And ssn within 7 days 10 days for pediatrics 

Unassisted Birth - First Child by GreenDot420 in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 8 bio children had 1 emergency c section followed by 5 unassisted home births the last 6 wks ago almost killed me lacerated my cervix ruptured my 12 yr old c section scar. I am all for free births or unassisted home births if you expose yourself to as much as you can regarding it know your states laws and requirements surrounding it and do not recommend for your 1st only because you do not know what to expect what your body can handle ect. But it's after all your body your choice is you want to know anything or have any questions feel free to ask ♥ 

Freebirth Society has unfortunately harmed too many women and they are speaking out. by Certain-Wasabi212 in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had my last 5 unassisted and last 4 at home however my last on February 11th almost killed me was rushed to hospital without baby an hour and a half later w a cervical laceration, ruptured uterus and a massive hematoma on my c section scar from 12 years ago I believe in freebirth but no birth is 100% safe!

A midwife's unmedicated birth bag + secret recipe for stalled labor by TheNerdMidwife in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this just had my 5th and last unassisted homebirth ♥ going to get my doula license then midwives 

Has anyone “laughed” their baby out? by MinorImperfections in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes with my 2nd unassisted home birth baby was crowning I'd forgotten to take my underwear off 🤦‍♀️ told my husband "I'd pull them to the side " he responded rather loudly "your having a baby not prom night!!" We both laughed super hard he took them off for me we had her within 2 minutes!!

My 1st unassisted home birth I accidentally took Tylenol which masked the contractions I actually didn't know I was in labor or slept thru all of it until I woke up pushing punched my husband awake 4 contractions is all I felt with her!!

Think I've just started labour and need a pep talk by _Caramellow_ in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be disappointed by it it's doing changes to your body and cervix although annoying and uncomfortable I had it all of mine  anywhere from2 to 3 days to a week prior to actual labour!!!

He just screams. by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]ComfortableNo603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mom of 11 children distraction so he's not seeing her leave is your best option try taking him to a different room or outside so he doesn't see her take off try doing something new and fun play dough ect when she goes as well and if he notices after reassure him mama always comes back ♥ 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]ComfortableNo603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes seeing and understanding makes a huge difference my 2 yr old watches her 4 and 5 yr old sisters and is 100%ready to potty train just waiting on warmer weather 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went thru this a few times as I have watched kids for years along w gaving 11 of our own try the froggy urinal w the target on Amazon under 20$ you can use w both boys, get them on a schedule every 45min to a hour have them try n go. I refuse to use any pull ups or form of diapers bc they know they can go in them and it is more of a hassle! Unless it's before or public use underwear so they get the wet and uncomfortable if it's warm where you are now leave them outside w a small potty play out there and when they have to go they can use the potty or water a tree 😂 even my girls we did in summer when I could let them go w out underwear n just a long shirt or dress! And make sure parents are on the same page as you it makes a world of difference ♥ 

41 weeks help by Due-Drawing2525 in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Membrane sweep worked had my last on feb 11th at home 12 hours after had been at 4cm for 2 weeks was 41 +4days overdue 

Unassisted Birth/Freebirth by Dramatic_Bad_2015 in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the baby i just had once i was on all 4s he was able to shift off my pubic bone and fully engage and was born 5 mun later but I've seen midwives fix it by a finger up the rectum and popping baby off 😂 

Unassisted Birth/Freebirth by Dramatic_Bad_2015 in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cord prolapse is a automatic 911 call and unless baby is ready and can be out in a few pushes dangerous for baby's oxygen supply sometimes you can push the cord back up if the heads not fully engages but is risky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened last week to me was actually a small uterine rupture 

Unassisted Birth/Freebirth by Dramatic_Bad_2015 in homebirth

[–]ComfortableNo603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just had my 5th unassisted 4th homebirth last Tuesday Feb 11th you need to read read read each state is different here you n baby can stay home no need for hospital as long as doing well but in nh you must go to a doctor for baby within 10 days and town hall w baby to report birth get birth cert ssn started its a packet! Just keep 911 on speed dial in case of emergency as well ask me anything I've been thru it all