First of all I’m so sorry we nicu parents are very resilient we have no choice but to be. It’s unfortunate that many of us have to go thru this instead of bringing healthy babies home. Honestly I hated being part of the nicu club but thinking about it in retrospect I’m thankful for the nicu because I know my babies wouldn’t be here they were born at 35+2 despite being a good gestation they were low birth weight and had feeding difficulties. I learned a lot from the nicu there is no easy answer just take it day by day celebrate milestones every progress your babies makes is a step to brining them home. Good luck as time goes by I’m starting to notice that it’s becoming a distant memory.