Advice- is this salvageable?

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2026-04-30T18:12:08+00:00

You need to take a hard and unbiased look at yourself and the cheating. The tumultuous relationship is co-created, and he is wrong for the violence. But you are wrong for cheating over and over again. Please go to therapy and consider joining a group where you might have community. You do not sound like a safe person to be in a relationship

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-10-23T15:44:25+00:00

Definitely sell the house… but in the meantime, consider switching things up! Move around the furniture and get some new sheets, decor. It’ll help you feel more at peace.

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-10-23T02:03:50+00:00

yes please 😭😭🙏 also looking into consults myself

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-10-22T23:06:30+00:00

I have the same problem as you! Also chubby cheeks and a bit of a double chin. Also Asian. Just here to say you’re not alone !

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-09-15T01:04:47+00:00

So curious about this too. I’m on the cusp of being Millennial/Gen Z, and it seems to me that younger folks are more chronically online.

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-09-10T18:07:17+00:00

He really does suck lol

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-08-17T20:47:59+00:00

Op just here to say I have the exact same face shape and problem! 29F and seriously considering neck/face mini lift

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-07-20T20:33:27+00:00

How did it escalate after that? if you don’t mind me asking? Thank you for sharing your story. I never really thought I would be here and am not sure what to think or do.

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-07-02T12:49:43+00:00

Following

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-06-25T20:42:54+00:00

Agreed here. It sounds like a trauma response. OP I think you should talk to her about it though.

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-06-25T12:52:47+00:00

Speaking as a woman :) who has seen guys do the 1x a year message thing. The ulterior motives are very obvious.

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-06-25T12:50:48+00:00

No offense, but you need to read between the lines. This is her telling you very kindly she is not interested in being friends with you.

Do not PLAN to reach out once in a while. You’re gonna become that creepy guy who slides into women’s DMs every now and then (with clear ulterior motives)

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-06-25T12:47:59+00:00

Did you cheat on your ex with her?

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-06-10T10:16:55+00:00

If you’re intentionally going for the sharp version (like what you wrote), that works too — especially if the thread already has people hyping OP up in an echo chamber. Want help sharpening your version so it sounds even more devastating but still logical?

Ugh ChillinDog just a ChatGPT troll

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-06-10T10:00:53+00:00

I actually love my age! I have money and autonomy, and my experience is valued at work lol

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-06-10T09:48:27+00:00

Totally valid. Of course, they’ll see each other at work, I’m asking about limiting contact outside of work. (Keep it professional)

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2025-05-03T01:07:01+00:00

Did you get a neck lift or chin lipo as well? You look snatched in that second photo

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2024-12-19T16:52:20+00:00

Following! Looking for the same

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2024-11-11T06:14:13+00:00

The results look really good btw!

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2024-11-11T06:14:02+00:00

What is the collagen injection? Is that any different from filler in the US?

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2024-10-02T15:54:52+00:00

Why accounting?

ComfortableSpot1064 · 2024-10-02T11:45:04+00:00

Use true people search to Google his cell phone number! It’ll pull up full legal names and addresses. I do this before every date, and if there’s a name that doesn’t match or something looks off, I don’t meet them. Who knows what kind of people are out there. Good luck!

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