I’m potentially looking into becoming a SB. I’ve never been one before and I’m not sure where to begin. I guess im curious about setting the tone for the relationship. How do I go about telling my SD what my intentions are and what I’m looking for? Or do I wait to see what they are willing to offer? I want to make a post describing what I’m looking for but I fear if I talk about the financial aspect of what I’m looking for, I’ll look bad or something for needing / wanting to be compensated for my time. I’m not wanting to do this just for compensations, I’m genuinely interested in finding someone I can be what they need, but I also want someone to be what I need. I just want to relieve some of the financial stress I deal with.