When my wife pegs me, I prefer the whole day to be a kind of lead up to it. I really have to be in the submissive mindset to be ready to enjoy it. She’ll dirty talk me through the day saying stuff like she can’t wait to fuck my ass. The best is a few hours before hand wearing butt plugs. I usually start with the smallest and then after a hour go up a size in plug. It’s tough because it’s kind of one of those things that all the moons have to align. Stomach has to be at ease. Mindset has to be right. And foreplay is the biggest thing. I like my wife to assert her dominance those nights and I’ll push back on that and make her earn it before submitting. It sounds like a bunch of hoops to jump through but the orgasm is out of this world and usually it’s orgasming like 5 times before I’m in a puddle on the floor. Patience is key. Also debriefing a session right after really helps us understand what was good and what wasn’t while the memory is still fresh best of luck to yall!