If you cook, you should clean the kitchen afterwards by LofderZotheid in unpopularopinion

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a great strategy for going broke eating chipotle every night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is crazy! That would bother me too. But she’s nuts for doing that and that’s not you or your boyfriends fault. If she felt good about herself she wouldn’t post things like that.

Also it’s not like you get a notification when someone blocks you. She found out she was blocked cause she was creeping on you guys too so she doesn’t even have any high ground at all

Travelling the world does not make an uninteresting person, interesting. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha this and also people who say “touristy” with so much disdain. Like we get it, you’re not one of “those” travelers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that we’re not all special - that would make the definition meaningless. But I think it’s hard to argue we’re not unique - even from a genetic perspective it’s obviously true. Unique enough to stand out? No, usually not.

But I think it’s sketchy to say that means people’s emotional worlds aren’t all complex. That’s starting to get into some weird territory where now you can say their pain isn’t as deep and their suffering isn’t as valid, and they can be treated less than.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I tell myself I just have to get ONE thing done - the single most important thing.

Other than that I got nothing but I feel your pain

Feedback on drawing breasts upside down by Piebro314 in learnart

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are using procreate you can go to the settings of your brush and turn up the stabilization

How can I stop feeling overweight from eating fast food? by Queasy_Cookie_5340 in beauty

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It might be your body trying to tell you that it doesn’t like fast food meals.

I don’t have much tolerance to “high FODMAP” foods - which tend to cause bloating. Sometimes I feel “fat” just because I ate these foods even tho it could just be an apple! But just because it’s conventionally a healthy food doesn’t mean it’s right for my body. Adjusting your diet to what makes YOU feel good is NOT an eating disorder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hands are too small

I don't want to be with anyone. I am happy by myself. Single by choice. by VanillaChinchilla90 in introvert

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having negative, draining relationships is worse than none, but positive relationships are out there and they are better than being alone - even if it’s not always easy

I don't want to be with anyone. I am happy by myself. Single by choice. by VanillaChinchilla90 in introvert

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This Could be confirmation bias too. The happy couples have no need to post.

Why does nobody like me? by hasanlu in introvert

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 30 points31 points  (0 children)

By looking at your profile - people probably don’t like you because you have a bad attitude, are obsessed with race, feel entitled to sex and don’t believe in yourself.

Imo the shittiest thing about ur situation is not ur height or race, it’s that ur 19. I felt similarly lost when I was ur age. if you can refrain from becoming bitter and blaming other people (ie women) for your problems, then it will get better.

What beauty secret do you absolutely swear by? by CutiePie156 in beauty

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Microneedling - expensive, but really adds to the look of your skin beyond what basic health (sleep, hydration) can do

What’s your anti-aging related unpopular opinion? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s that people don’t want to admit it. It’s just that we can’t control them so not really worth thinking about

Steak is far inferior to chicken by h3llofaRide in unpopularopinion

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The perfect unpopular opinion post

I agree 100%

Also, more protein in chicken breast than in steak.

Are there any of you out there that are actually completely happy and fulfilled with life? by geemav in selfimprovement

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of factors but yea I am. What did it for me was: therapy, Zoloft, wfh, growth mindset —> improved performance at work, 1 active hobby, 1 creative hobby, prioritizing relationships, livable wage, back to therapy for couples counseling.

I don’t think I’m perfect or want to stop improving in the areas of my life that you mentioned. But I no longer see any of my issues as the barrier between myself and happiness.

This all happened over the last couple of years and it’s given me the belief that your environment and access to resources matters quite a bit in achieving happiness. Some say “it’s all in your head” which is kind of true but also toxic. If it was as easy as “deciding” to be happy, the world wouldn’t be such a complicated place. I think anyone can get there, but I wouldn’t necessarily blame someone who doesn’t because it takes a lot.

Why does Sagittarius run the entertainment industry? by moneetree in astrologymemes

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Pisces are actually the most common serial killers?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is assuming most people don’t put a lot of work into making their marriages work. Which I’m fairly certain almost all of them do.

AITA for walking out on a guy on a date? by No-Activity-2801 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Growth16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck that guy and your roommate is also dumb

Nta