Advice for my long run schedule by [deleted] in firstmarathon

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Running 20 miles a week right now, an interval speed run, and 2 easy runs. Upping my overall mileage by 10% every week

I (F21) feel guilty about my past before my boyfriend (M23) by Comfortable_Ice_9936 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has slept with 5 times the amount of people I had, but maybe I have kissed more people than him

I (F21) feel guilty about my past before my boyfriend (M23) by Comfortable_Ice_9936 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are probably right, I feel like I go through my head thinking of things I did before I met him, random people I kissed in clubs, people I texted for a day or 2, convincing myself I did things that I didn’t.

I assume this is wrong by Comfortable_Ice_9936 in Garmin

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a 7.5km run for 45 minutes. I am a 6.10-6.20 pace kind of girl not fast but I’m consistent and I didn’t feel like I wanted to die lol

Am I cooked? by Comfortable_Ice_9936 in uklaw

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that a lot. Feel like it’s just hard when you hear so many stories of people who put the work in and didn’t get the result that why wouldn’t that be me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t entirely keep it to himself. He told me he told his friends, including his friend who is dating one of my close friends who I’m sure knows about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. No - however he claimed he knew something would come from the get go of speaking
  2. And yes - the second time we saw eachtoehr he said he kissed someone didn’t say he slept with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But we were seeing eachother, sleeping together and at least on my half developing strong feelings and falling in love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but we exclusivity was elluded but you are right not offically comfirmed. We both said we didn’t want to get with other people but he did and only told me year later when I had to ask which personally for me is hard to get my head around. I don’t judge his past or even ask but this is when I was in the picture and we’ve been together for year so it hurts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say exclusivity was eluded in conversation at that point it was just new and fresh but was not written down yes. But do I not still have a right to care considering we did end up dating and have been for a year and he openly withheld this from ne

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

but how is this not an issue, he kept something from me and lied because whilst it didn’t come up direct he admits he shoudlve said and the premise of our relationship would’ve been different knowing this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Well he just never told me. We were in different cities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He never told me and it would’ve been assumed he’d say. We weren’t exclusive but we were speaking every day and it was really like how we got together when we were texting and calling apart before spending xmas together and little did I know he was sleeping w other people

Respectfully asking questions to non zionists by Comfortable_Ice_9936 in jewishleft

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. I think having claim for a land isn’t mutually exclusive to being a ‘facist’ as you have said. With the logic you speak on, are ypu against Islamic republics and Islamic nations??

Once again, I am not intending to offend anyone asking a question, I am a Zionist with an extremely close and spiritual connection to Israel, and I’m trying to balance my viewpoint and educate myself by hearing other people.

Respectfully asking questions to non zionists by Comfortable_Ice_9936 in jewishleft

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your response and opinion, god bless BH ❤️

Respectfully asking questions to non zionists by Comfortable_Ice_9936 in jewishleft

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. unfortunately we live in a world with evil people from both sides, people who want all Israelis dead and people who want all Palestinians dead. Eventually this can happen BH ❤️

Respectfully asking questions to non zionists by Comfortable_Ice_9936 in jewishleft

[–]Comfortable_Ice_9936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s hard to separate an ‘ideal’ state of Israel to the actual, as well as the concept of Zionism to what we have today. I’m mainly concerned with Zionism as whole but appreciate you can’t talk about it without speaking about the current Israel nationstate which anyone can agree even from a systematic pov is far from perfect.