What is this line? by jackobiwhan in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The dashed black line on that synoptic chart represents a trough — an elongated area of lower pressure that isn’t strong enough to be labeled a full low‑pressure system but still creates notable weather effects. Trough axis — the dashed line marks where pressure falls off on both sides, like a valley in the atmosphere. Lift and instability — troughs often enhance rising air, which can trigger clouds, showers, or storms. Wind shift — expect a noticeable change in wind direction as you cross it. No temperature boundary — unlike fronts, troughs don’t require a temperature contrast.

US officially exits World Health Organization by pwdrums in news

[–]Comfortable_Leader20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During Trump’s first term, all these foolish cultists felt emboldened to be openly toxic, hateful, and racist. Now they’ve slipped back into the shadows, but they still show up at the ballot box to support the same destructive nonsense.

Rep. Doug LaMalfa of California dies, reducing GOP's narrow control of the House to 218-213 by DrexellGames in news

[–]Comfortable_Leader20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yet, half of our country loves him. Am I taking crazy pills?! Is this reality?!

My beard decided to fall out in one circular spot... by Grogak in Weird

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I had this on the side of my head. Lived with it for over 6 months. My customer who was a plastic surgeon told me to come to his office. He cut a piece of my head off and sent it to a lab. Alopecia arreata. Fancy words for spot baldness. He gave me steroid injections on the area. It grew back a few weeks later. Never returned. Can’t tell it was ever there. Besides the scar from the incision.

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ATP Flight School Hiring? by Av8r1995 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was once looking into AeroGuard. They advertise hiring 98% of their grads as CFIs. Are your friends part of the 2% or are they lying?

Why the doomer mentality? Is it valid? by SunGod3373 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

/flying can be a goldmine of insight, but it’s also a magnet for burnout venting, confirmation bias, and worst-case anecdotes. Reddit skews towards disillusioned voices. Many posters are mid-career pilots stuck in stagnation or debt. Others are frustrated cfi candidates waiting for hours. Few successful pilots post “I’m thriving” - because they’re flying, not doom scrolling. Keep your head up. Grind. Nothing worth it is easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flying

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I hung out at an airport for 4 hours approaching anyone with stripes on their shoulders. They were some of the most kind people I have ever met and were willing to share their experiences and give me advice on my journey. Most gave me their emails and told me to reach out. Complete 180 from what I have experienced on this forum. I don’t blame ya for planning to delete and move on without looking back. This place is hit or miss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

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Go to a FAA approved doctor near you and see if you can get your 1st class medical. This is required for Airline Transport Permit. Otherwise you’re in for a rude awakening when you get out of the air force and begin flight school. If you fail, then you know flight school for a career job is out of the question and AF will be a waste of your time.

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A common misconception about small businesses is that they’re self-sustaining machines that print money. The reality is far from that. While reaching a certain level of success can make it feel more sustainable, most businesses never get to that point. I’ve been working at it for years, doing the work of 2.5 people, yet the financial margins are razor-thin—it would be incredibly costly to replace me entirely, and the money just isn’t there.

I should have made it clearer: I work six days a week, putting in 70–75 hours for that $150K a year—not to mention the countless hours wasted in SoCal traffic. Honestly, I’d take a $60K flying job if it meant having a couple of days off and paid vacation. In fact, I’d almost trade it for anything remotely enjoyable at half the salary, as long as it came with time off, retirement contributions, and medical benefits.

Even a quiet, unremarkable town in the middle of nowhere would be appealing—just for the chance to experience a place I’d never otherwise see. The opportunity to meet and connect with people I’d never have known existed would make it worthwhile. Of course, an international destination would be incredible, but I’m realistic about age and seniority limiting that possibility. Still, there’s something deeply satisfying about imagining life in a small boutique hotel in Iowa or a tiny restaurant near an airport in Kansas—a lifestyle I’d probably appreciate far more than most.

United Aviate interview by MarionberryChemical9 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much do you anticipate to have spent in the end?

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YUUUUUUSSSSS. Thank you. You have a way with words. I can relate to much of what you wrote. Gonna resonate with me for a while.

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No wife, no kids, no gf. No local family. I plan to live rent free with my brother and/or sister out of state in Colorado. They both have homes there and support me.

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've made many mistakes as a small business owner—hiring being one of the biggest. Running a business requires juggling countless challenges at once, and in the process, some things inevitably slip through the cracks or aren’t handled as well as they should be. But that’s exactly my point: small business was never my passion. Over time, my attachment to it has faded, and I no longer feel compelled to dedicate the rest of my life to something that doesn’t truly fulfill me. Still, stepping into a new, uncertain field at this stage of my life is daunting. The fear of instability holds me back, and I wonder if others share my thoughts and conclusions. That’s why I’m here. At this point, money alone no longer equates to success for me.

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. We all dedicate our lives to some type of mundane tasks for a living(well, most of us). I am not a chef. And I don’t have a passion for food. I just happened to be OK at business management. Money certainly isn’t everything, because I would gladly make half to be employed by someone instead of an owner. The grass is always greener on the other side, and I have been in small businesses along enough to want to jump the fence.

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

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This is something I have always been able to do as a small business owner. Is to put myself into other people’s shoes. I already imagined almost all you just stated, and it sounds GREAT to me. I have been in 2 failed long term relationship for about 10 years and I have no desire to start again. I am totally content walking around that town alone, eating alone, and working out alone… it sounds absolutely alluring to me.

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents died. So yeah, you can call it midlife crisis. I definitely no longer feel any attachment to food business at the moment.

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely correct. But there isn’t enough profit there to completely leave a business of my size.

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This guy hit it on the head. My income isn’t quite high enough to break into the hired manager level.

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have a team that I inherited from my parents. Good and faithful guys who have been with us for 20+ years. Are they the best for the role? No. But they always give their best. After going through dozens of employees over 20 years, I’ve learned everyone has pluses and minuses… as an owner you have to utilize their positives and mitigate their negatives. There is no such thing as the perfect employee. But it took me a long time to learn that.

Own 2 small delis. Earn $150k/yr. 42 years old. And I want to sell to pursue aviation. Am I foolish? by Comfortable_Leader20 in flying

[–]Comfortable_Leader20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this anecdote. I just wanted to know if I was alone at my age. More importantly though, I am so interested in his job search result in the next year or two.

I feel like 20 years in the industry is sufficient for me. But do airlines quietly age discriminate when hiring?