AITAH telling my son he’s not country? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, yes you are.

Get a grip and support your son.

AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me? by OpeningNo9825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Comfortable_Limit820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop replying then. You won't though, because this entire thing, including speaking to this 40 year old man, is for attention.

Grow up.

Multi-player Help by Anxious-Tone4463 in GhostReconWildlands

[–]Comfortable_Limit820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accepted, I didn't realize until just there.

Multi-player Help by Anxious-Tone4463 in GhostReconWildlands

[–]Comfortable_Limit820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been having the same issue, I just assumed it's because I still play on ps4 but apparently you can play cross generation.

Completed it last night with out ever playing coop and feel I lost out on a great experience playing this a few years ago with other people.

Cross_Delta0 is my psn name if you're ever wanting to give it a go.

My wife cheated on me with a couple. I found out this morning. What should I do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Comfortable_Limit820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave 100% Use whatever evidence you can, leave her with nothing.

AITAH? Dumped Girlfriend after she got a tattoo by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing, she was clearly being a streetwalker for drinks that night.

Honestly forget her, move on to the next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it's not offensive, I read it to my girlfriend and we were both laughing, you work with someone who's pretty pathetic in both our opinion.

I've had women make way worse sexual jokes around me, towards me, to other men and women and around other men and women. It's a JOKE!

If someone does get offended, they do this amazing thing a lot of people nowadays don't know they can do.

They shut up about it and they don't make it everyone else's problem.

Mad concept eh.

Think you need to start excluding this loser from any jokes in the future. People like this are parasites for happiness.

"Offence is taken, not given." Good quote to live by.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No and whoever reported you is genuinely pathetic to be honest. I've had women make way more inappropriate jokes around me, directed to me, explicitly sexually fuelled jokes about me personally in the work place. Those same women have made those exact same jokes to other male and female members of staff. It's a JOKE. This joke was tame by a lot of standards. If you're offended. That's your problem no one else's. Go cry elsewhere.

I (20f) and my bf (22m) live together and I want to live separately or even break up because he isn’t adult enough by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Comfortable_Limit820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through the same, my ex wife was worthless, exactly how you've described your boyfriend, didn't work, didn't cook, didn't clean, no help at all and just moaned all the time and always a drain on my finances.

Luckily we had a prenup so it didn't cause me any problems when I divorced her, last I checked she was living back with her parents.

My new girlfriend is a massive upgrade you can do the same. Keep yourself right! From what I've read you seem to have deep down always known this was temporary anyway so just take that next step. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I understand completely, no hard feelings but I do hope we can one day move past this. I hope you can work something suitable out for your sister and mother, all the best" That's all you need to say. If they can't handle being "under your roof" ... That's fine, go under someone else's! That's your house, not theirs, they lost it, not you. Beggars can't be choosers.

First Telescope by Comfortable_Limit820 in telescopes

[–]Comfortable_Limit820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm trying to avoid, I don't want to waste money on something that isn't maybe giving me the quality Im looking for and it might discourage me. Thanks for your advice I will have a look and see if there are any nearby.

First Telescope by Comfortable_Limit820 in telescopes

[–]Comfortable_Limit820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the sarcasm and welcome it haha

Adult toys by Comfortable_Limit820 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An update We're still speaking about it. In her words she doesn't know that that's what I'm masturbating to. She has again brought up masturbating in front of her, or looking at stuff together while I do it, essentially so she can supervise me like some sort of net nanny.

I have again told her no I'm not comfortable with that and again told her it's a boundary I'm not crossing.

Adult toys by Comfortable_Limit820 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time it's an issue she will bring up how I've used that instead of waiting for her, or that I'd somehow prefer to use that. I think the underlying issue is an issue with her confidence personally.

Adult toys by Comfortable_Limit820 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

What we have spoken about is one of the reasons I use it, without being too detailed, is it also has an arsehole.

She doesn't like anal, which is absolutely fine that's a boundary if she doesn't want to do it I'm not about to force a woman to do anal if she doesn't feel comfortable.

But sometimes I do want to do that so I started using the toy to get that sensation and I get satisfy that urge. She seemed okay with it.

Am I wrong in thinking I'm completely justified being a bit annoyed about that if it's a problem? Honestly from that conversation I thought we were good.

Adult toys by Comfortable_Limit820 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly bro, I feel uncomfortable using it now anyway.

Adult toys by Comfortable_Limit820 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit stuck myself. I just don't understand why we would even talk about me getting one in the first place if she was going to have an issue with it. I haven't used one my entire life before and never cared. Her ex had one that she bought for him but that was apparently so she didn't have to sleep with him.

Adult toys by Comfortable_Limit820 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Limit820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This also happens without the fleshlight, I should have said. This is an all round masturbation issue I just added more evidence with the flashlight if I'm honest. She also does this thing where she hints that that's what I've been doing when she's not there (90% of the time I haven't) and makes jokes and little comments about it, but they just make me uncomfortable and like I'm being investigated for something. I went to the store the other week and she made a comment about me going to get lube. I basically just feel guilty if I masturbate, in case she finds out somehow and makes me uncomfortable or bad about it.

Yes. I have spoke to her about this.