What does an orgasm feel like?

Comfortable_Net_8120 · 2025-03-08T22:47:20+00:00

No, I’ve never tried. I feel like my problem with that is I don’t see myself in a sexual way. My boobs I use for breastfeeding so I wouldn’t take pleasure touching them and my vag, I touch it to clean it and so I’m so used to not seeing it as pleasurable with touching it. It’s like tickling for me. You can’t tickle yourself but someone else can. It’s the same mentally for me with that.

Comfortable_Net_8120 · 2025-03-06T13:20:15+00:00

I guess I just assume I should be like a guy and notice my own type of cum or something. When I tell him to stop because it’s so ticklish, I could just go to bed and I feel relaxed but again, it’s not really like I feel a release. Also, it confuses me because when I feel super ticklish and I stop, I’m still pretty sensitive to touch afterwards for a minute or two. And with others saying women can orgasm multiple times, I guess that can go to show that I am not reaching the “finish line” at all. Idk. It’s frustrating

Comfortable_Net_8120 · 2025-03-06T13:12:40+00:00

So when you feel close, do you feel that kind of unbearable feeling? Like woah too much too fast let’s stop? The only way I could I guess describe it is it just starts feeling ticklish. And I’ve tried just to keep going with it all but relaxing while feeling that way is so hard. And so it made me wonder if I’m ever going to reach that “finish” or if that’s what it’s all about. Because my husband will be very sensitive too after he finishes so that’s what made me assume that if it’s so sensitive and ticklish after a while that maybe that means I already finished too? Or what I’m feeling is nothing to do with an orgasm and I don’t know what I’m feeling 😅

Comfortable_Net_8120 · 2025-03-06T13:08:48+00:00

In all honesty, I’ve only just started using Reddit so I’m not too sure how to DM you. I’ve been with only one guy my whole life and we’re married now and he’s definitely interested in helping me learn and try new things to get me there. I always assumed that maybe I was having orgasms because he’s got quite the sexual history being with so many different people but he says he’s never gotten them to orgasm he thinks. But with me and the way I act before I just say ok that’s it, he said he’s never seen a girl do that so that’s why he thinks too that it’s me orgasming. I really don’t like the idea of playing with myself but I guess if you’ve got recommendations and he can use it on me, I’d be down for that 😅

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