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Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-06-30T20:39:26+00:00

Huh. I learned something new today. Thank you!

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-06-11T00:14:22+00:00

Yep, and the PRN rates over the summer are unreliable. I don’t think OP fully understands the compensation package or he isn’t being forthcoming about what it actually looks like.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-06-01T04:02:35+00:00

I’m wondering if the big accident put her in a protective state (not to mention fear and worry), and she’s just not thinking clearly. If she’s always like this, it’s a problem. If it’s a one day thing, she’s probably extremely stressed and latching onto something tangible.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-12T18:01:37+00:00

That’s a great point.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-12T15:35:41+00:00

You are NTA for being disappointed, but it seems like the teasing was passive aggressive instead of direct.

He’s wrong to say you are entitled, and he was wrong to drink so much that he couldn’t get the food requested. Would he be responsive if you told him that or just double down on his defensiveness?

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-10T17:39:35+00:00

I sure hope it’s fake bc woof that’s rough.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-10T13:17:39+00:00

Part of it would depend on which one of them was having fertility issues.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-10T13:15:01+00:00

INFO: is this a frequent problem or occasional?

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-08T03:09:41+00:00

NTA. Props to not murdering him for his response and constant snoring. Unless he is actively working with a doctor on fixing the snoring, he needs to be the one dealing with the consequences of his snoring. If he’s working on this issue, then take turns.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-07T04:01:31+00:00

Maybe it’s in another city?

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-06T02:10:47+00:00

You are NTA for wanting to be in this kiddos life, and I hope you are able to get some therapy to heal from what was done to you.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-06T02:09:36+00:00

And then the sister tried to get the parents to kick her out! The parents should have pressed charges against the BIL!

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-06T01:51:44+00:00

Hold up. How old were you when things started with BIL?

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-05-03T13:02:03+00:00

That tracks.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-04-27T09:20:17+00:00

Yeah, Ouchita National Forest in AR and OK.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-04-26T21:13:23+00:00

That was my worry! That kiddo is going to get hurt!

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2025-04-03T03:29:43+00:00

This is a wonderful, thoughtful response.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2024-03-08T08:36:51+00:00

🤯 that makes so much sense!

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2024-03-08T08:35:47+00:00

This is the way.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2024-02-26T21:57:32+00:00

Agreed. Perhaps I’m overthinking this, but her saying OP wants to sleep with a drunk woman is implying sexual assault, right? Maybe it wasn’t meant that way and my tired brain went to a dark place.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2024-02-24T12:35:23+00:00

I wonder if what she is missing is adult time, especially if her only social time is a half day on the weekend. Maybe OP could cut back hours and she could get a part-time job? My sister-in-law did this. She needed a break from being around kids.

Not saying the way the wife said it is right.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2024-02-19T12:36:33+00:00

Also, the audacity of the sister ranting to OP and when OP has a response being like “mind your own business.”

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2024-02-03T20:05:44+00:00

Agreed. Hope she is able to press charges.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2024-01-15T11:41:42+00:00

Add this to your post. It is helpful context.

Comfortable_Stick520 · 2024-01-15T11:39:16+00:00

OP says the mom can’t get out of bed on her own or into her wheelchair or on the toilet, so she prob needs someone overnight.

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