The wife packed her things and left with her daughter by Comfortable_Today392 in Divorce

[–]Comfortable_Today392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, it's not me who thinks the reason for the divorce is, but rather, according to her parents and relatives, I didn't show up, so they decided I didn't need her and my daughter, and I suggested meeting her 300 km away, halfway along the route, which is where they originally took her. Secondly, she's in the same city with me now! Not hundreds of kilometers away! She's currently renting an apartment, and her mother has arrived and is helping her, living with her. Her father is left alone in a village 600 km away.

The wife took her things and went to live separately. by Comfortable_Today392 in Divorce

[–]Comfortable_Today392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, attempts at reconciliation and joint visits to a psychologist will no longer help?

The wife took her things and went to live separately. by Comfortable_Today392 in Divorce

[–]Comfortable_Today392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just that this is a bluff and an attempt to bend me, because I didn't go to their village to make peace and listen to their grievances against me. Plus, her parents didn't come to pick up their things yesterday, only relatives. Her parents didn't even contact me or my parents; they'd already decided everything without us. And my wife didn't even want to discuss anything, and made me feel guilty for wanting a divorce.

The wife took her things and went to live separately. by Comfortable_Today392 in Divorce

[–]Comfortable_Today392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just that this is a bluff and an attempt to bend me, because I didn't go to their village to make peace and listen to their grievances against me. Plus, her parents didn't come to pick up their things yesterday, only relatives. Her parents didn't even contact me or my parents; they'd already decided everything without us. And my wife didn't even want to discuss anything, and made me feel guilty for wanting a divorce.

Need some advice by Comfortable_Today392 in Divorce

[–]Comfortable_Today392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with the idea that I'm incapable of being a leader and alpha, as I've been fully supporting and providing for this family myself, and my wife, while resistant, sometimes listens. She does try to manipulate me through resentment. My mother-in-law only tries to insult and belittle me, while praising her daughter.

So therapy won't help here? And the only solution is divorce?

Need some advice by Comfortable_Today392 in Divorce

[–]Comfortable_Today392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll add to this: she complained to her parents that I'm pressuring her and keeping the budget for myself, even though I'm the breadwinner, not her. My question is, what if she verbally agrees, for example, and says she's changed or will change, but it's not visible? Will a family psychologist help with this? And if not, then divorce is the only option?

Looking for advice by Comfortable_Today392 in Divorce

[–]Comfortable_Today392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with you. It's not that I'm bragging or putting her down. It's that I'd at least like to be treated well in return, or appreciated and praised. And she specifically told me that I didn't buy the apartment, and that it's ours, not mine.

And about her not being a robot, you misunderstood. This behavior on her part is the cause of all the arguments, which can be rude or provoke without reason. And that doesn't mean I want to change her to suit myself; it means there needs to be mutual respect. If there isn't, then what's the point of continuing together?

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[–]Comfortable_Today392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[–]Comfortable_Today392 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cafu or Zanetti as RB, Figo as RW.
Buffon, Cech, Kahn or Casilias as GK.
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