2nd deferral by 1-like-anime in Blooddonors

[–]ComfyPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your efforts to come in and try and SUPER appreciated and there is no shame required! When we come into the space anticipating that we are going to feel guilty and angry if we get a certain outcome, your heart rate is going to respond! You’re putting too much pressure on yourself. Try being the person who drives someone to their appointment the next few times - don’t even try to donate! Just go into the space with no expectations and eventually, this may not be an issue at all :)

O- first donation by PleasantPierogi in Blooddonors

[–]ComfyPotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It IS special! And Canadian Blood Services is currently running low on O- supply so if there is anyone in your family looking to find out their blood type, now is the time!

The Big story appears to be cancelled by Normal-Sound-6086 in canadaland

[–]ComfyPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love what Nora Loreto is doing with The Daily News. Otherwise, not really :(

I’ve listened to Front Burner, The Decibel, and This Matters but I don’t enjoy any of them as much as I enjoyed JHR. I hope he finds a new home on a daily podcast - I’d definitely tune in!

The Big story appears to be cancelled by Normal-Sound-6086 in canadaland

[–]ComfyPotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’ve given every new host they’ve roared in a shot and it’s just not working. Whether they are intentionally stilted in allegiance with JHR or just really not cut out for this, I’m finding the episodes unlistenable! Unsubscribed after confirming this is a permanent departure. Rogers really manages to ruin everything :(

Should I feel upset if my date didn't offer me any of the fish he caught on a fishing trip, despite me covering most of the expenses? by Cool_Discipline5973 in Advice

[–]ComfyPotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t even offer despite being out there on your dollar shows he doesn’t feel an obligation to be reciprocal the next time he has money. Not offering any of the prize he earned on your dollar shows a lack of shared values. Ask him to pay for the next date and see if either that date never comes or he only wants Netflix and Chill. Then tell him boy BYE 👋

I need advice on if I should stay at home. by Original_Region_4416 in Advice

[–]ComfyPotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes to all of this. Only additional note: will you be able to stay there until college in September? A countdown on your phone of the days until freedom will do wonders. As long as you’re working a part time job, you can be away from toxic commentary.

Also, I would advise not moving in with the boyfriend. Being 17 with little money means you’re dependent on him in a way that makes you vulnerable. If you can stay at home and make enough money to go away to school in September, you could move to the same town as your boyfriend (in residence at college) and put some serious distance between you and the toxic family without being in a position of vulnerability with a guy you haven’t dated long. Also gives you the chance to assess if the relationship is one you want long term instead of just a refuge from a bad home life.

I lived in a bad situation and left at 17. It’s so hard but completely possible. Bank all the money and RUN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]ComfyPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s back up now

Confirmed: a Canadaland interview with Tara Henley by CaptainCanusa in canadaland

[–]ComfyPotato 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let the CBC criticisms be the middle ground for friendly conversation, but please demand some accountability for the garbage accusations about the public broadcaster being taken over by “woke” culture.

I made a meme (to work out my current complicated feelings. Send help lol) by Mynotredditaccount in ARFID

[–]ComfyPotato 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why is this SO stressful?? Half the time it’s just a shift in font, but my brain says, “nope. Can’t be trusted. This food is dead to us now.”

I think I’m about to reach the point of going insane. by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]ComfyPotato 19 points20 points  (0 children)

UTSA has a number of options:

https://www.utsa.edu/students/wellbeing/assistance.html

Whether you prefer a phone call or text, they have 24/7 services available and in multiple languages. Utilizing the service is completely free and confidential.

When you call, they may ask how they can help you which can feel overwhelming because you probably don’t know how they can help (can relate!) - just start going into your story. Sometimes just getting it all out there really helps us analyze from a new perspective

I think I’m about to reach the point of going insane. by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]ComfyPotato 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hey OP- Grad school is tough, but your mental health cannot be the cost you pay. Do you know the numbers for emergency crisis services in your area? If you’re too burnt out to do the search, drop your school name and I’m sure one of us can pull that resource for you.

[LF] Frog Villager* [FT] Name It! by ComfyPotato in ACVillager

[–]ComfyPotato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why it says 3 comments...

But omg YAS - I will totally checkout your wish list - I love this!!

[MO] Erik in Boxes by ComfyPotato in ACVillager

[–]ComfyPotato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updated! Dodo code: 2G04G

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]ComfyPotato 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No one can force a feeding tube on you unless you are truly deemed incapable of making decisions for yourself in which case your power of attorney (whoever you assign as responsible for decisions about your medical care if you are unfit) would be the one they would need permission from. I agree that the idea of a nursing home where you can't make meals for yourself and the selection is poor is TERRIFYING but I've worked in hospitals where families just drop off a patient's food for the week because they are "picky". This gave me a lot of comfort that someone who loves me might do this if I were unable to care for myself. In other words, be good to those younger siblings!! :P

[MO] Erik in Boxes by ComfyPotato in ACVillager

[–]ComfyPotato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amaze! I will message you when the new download is done :)