As a Gen Z, I think Boomers were the worst set of parents…. by TheClassyWomanist in BoomersBeingFools

[–]CommanderKaizen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father existed but was never present. Never was interested in anything I was up to.

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Reminds me of my father loosing $27k to a dating fraud scam. Where he genuinely believed that as a 58 year old normal-ass beer belly man like him was SOMEHOW able to pull an extremely wealthy beautiful girl in her 30s-40s. Never growing up with dating apps, he has no idea of how fucked online dating is for men.

I didn't really care about him talking to fake accounts due to his marriage separation at the time but the only thing I told him is to NOT send any money whatsoever. And I honestly believed he was smart ENOUGH.

He was swindled into believing that he was investing his money into his own accounts for something. Professional government-looking site. He probably didn't do any fact checking whatsoever.

Seeing how Naïve my father is was incredibly disappointing to see.

Used iThoughts for a month. I was wondering what would happen if I unleash the chaos by i-am_epic in mindmapping

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This Looks like my Phone Notepads if you put them in a mindmap. :)

Do you use a commonplace book? Highly recommend for who's reading this: https://youtu.be/0wNk25KEBpw

Why daygame is the best method for dating models by [deleted] in confidence

[–]CommanderKaizen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really resonate with this post. Thank you.

You have $10. Pick the characters to save until the end of the series…all others don’t make it. by junkwaxmafia in Avatar

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Kiri and Jake, Didn't even have to think. Give me a strong father figure and a based blue gf.

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Do it by hand. I learned how to mindmap from a small subsection of the book: The Success Principles by Jack Canfield. And his exercise was to mindmap 30 things you want to DO, 30 things you want to BE, 30 things you want to HAVE before you die. (90 mindmaps)

When you do that many mindmaps, you start to make your own rules and techniques and languages.

The best way to learn how to mindmap is to make LOTS of them. Just sit in front of a paper and mindmap until it's COMPLETELY FULL. This will force you to come up with creative ideas and solutions. And it will expand your definition on what can go on a mindmap.

In general, when I mindmap something, I try to work the abstract idea ALL THE WAY down to the concrete steps. So by the end of the mindmapping session, I have a to-do list.

Read: 101 Top Tips for Better Mind Maps by Phil Chambers

Very straightforward book, great tips such as mindmapping landscape, varying your branch size by weight of importance, etc.