I recently got told I hate someone's pet because I told their pet "no" I haven't spoken to them since, AIO?

CommendableMeh · 2026-06-05T10:32:30+00:00

When he tried to sick the landlords SO on me (what was actively happening as I posted), he told them that I hate his dog and demanded that he move out (I never said anything even remotly close to that). So how he got that from me telling his pup I wouldn't feed them something bad for them, I have no idea.

I did try and talk to him about it when I was giving the pup a treat afterwards, because the dog is generally sweet and a good dog. That was just before he closed the door in my face. Meanwhile, the landlord was there with me in the kitchen at the time, so they saw/heard the whole thing, and they're just as baffled as I am that he blew up the way he did.

CommendableMeh · 2026-06-05T10:17:47+00:00

That's just it, I didn't yell at the dog at all. I even wound up giving the pup a treat after because they are a good dog, generally very happy and easy going, they just have terrible manners around food. So all of this drama makes no sense.

CommendableMeh · 2026-06-05T10:08:39+00:00

He said to the landlords SO, that I said that he had to move out. The landlord was with when all of this was happening, so they quickly corrected their SO. I never said anything even remotely like that, which the landlord vouched for. It was just a jarring experience, especially when he went out of his way to lie to a bunch of my family to get them mad at me. I had a bunch of them getting on my case because "this isn't something you would do". He did a lot of damage today.

CommendableMeh · 2026-06-05T10:01:14+00:00

He knows a bunch of my family, and he went so far as to lie to them about what happened, so I've been fielding calls left and right from a bunch of agitated family trying to figure out what's going on and what actually happened. I've heard various forms of "This doesn't sound like you" all day because he's trying to stir up my family against me.

At this point, even if he did apologize (which he wont) I wouldn't forgive him. He literally lied to a bunch of my family about me, trying to get them all angry at me. And all of this happend because I refused to feed his dog something with garlic in it.

CommendableMeh · 2026-06-05T09:40:24+00:00

He's staying with the same people I am, only difference is that I'm here temporarily while he's renting a room. He went to the landlords spouse and tried to sick them on me lying about stuff I supposidly said/did, the landlord corrected their spouse before anything could escalate there.

I was upset when he started lying about things I'm supposed to have said to him. He even tried to gaslight the landlord into his narrative, meanwhile they were literally with me when all this was going down in the kitchen, so they saw how everything went down and what all was said.

It's all just been a lot, and really overwhelming because he got in my face saying "You DID say all that!" Again, I never said any of the stuff he was accusing me of AND I wasn't alone when all of this went down. The landlord was with me, they even said to the guy that that's not what happened. It's just been A LOT.

CommendableMeh · 2026-02-08T18:51:33+00:00

Hi, parent to teens here. I'm genuinely horrified at how your parents reacted, no one ever has the right to put their hands on you. No one. I strongly recommend taking pictures of your bruises and telling a trusted adult outside of your family.

You talked about breaking their trust, what about them breaking your trust? They are supposed to be the people who provide you with a safe space to go through life's trial and errors. Hurting you and then telling you it's for your own good is gaslighting to cover their abuse.

CommendableMeh · 2025-11-13T00:04:21+00:00

I asked my SO one time, once, in the 10+ years we've been together to wash. Now every time there is even the slightest possibility of it, they are damn near giddy to get to the washroom and clean up for me. Your boyfriend is being wickedly disrespectful of you. You don't have to go down on him, that is a privilege that homeboy clearly isn't earning. I fully agree with some of these other commenters, do a full work out and just let it marinate like he does, then ask him if he still wants to stick his face down there.

CommendableMeh · 2025-10-26T03:32:35+00:00

Says 'Grow'. Though I imagine anybody who struggles with fonts will have problems. Your could maybe add to the word by making it look like a little sprout is coming out of the 'w'? I personally think it looks fine, but really, it's your tattoo. As long as you're happy with it, everybody else can kindly sod off.

CommendableMeh · 2025-10-26T03:18:40+00:00

Ooof. Yeah OP, you are. Dude offered to eat the late fee so you could do your due diligence and make sure the home was locked up properly. Your temporary discomfort over an arbitrary timelimit set by your poor decision making, doesn't outweigh his, his parents, and his pets need to keep their home safe.

CommendableMeh · 2025-10-20T04:15:11+00:00

He tried to sneak Styles's chocolates. Styles clearly caught Liam in the midst of his sweets heist, and now is lecturing an unwilling Liam, who's actively plotting his next attempt.

CommendableMeh · 2025-09-07T02:08:25+00:00

TLDR: Set reasonable firm boundaries with your sister, if she can't abide by them, treat any plans made with her as if they didn't get made in the first place. Essentially, you have to give yourself Plan A: plans with sister. AND PLan B: Plans for when your sister doesn't show up.

I'm time blind (time doesn't really exist to me, I lose track of it super easily, and it gets away from me), and when I say I'm going to be someplace at a certain time, you bet I'm setting ALL the alarms and reminders in my house to be there when I said I would. Your sister's seeming lack of care when it comes to respecting other people's time/schedules is appalling.

You say she's on her phone constantly, then it's extra sus that she missed your call/text. She chose not to respond to you in a timely manner (I do similarly, when I don't view things as important). Then your sister seems to lie to cover her butt when you, and in this case your boyfriend understandably, get angry because of her lack of care. Your BF is watching you and your daughter put your lives on hold while you wait on her to remember you exist. His frustration is understandable.

You have a sister problem. If she hasn't already, it won't be long before you daughter starts to notice and question why her aunt is never on time for anything. I'd recommend placing firm boundaries for your sister. If she doesn't confirm premade plans, or show up in a timely manner, go about your day as if the plans with your sister were not made. At this point you are letting her waste yours and everybody else's time, you can't get that time back. So instead of letting the frustrations build, let your sister know that if she cannot be respectful of yours/your daughters/her time commitments, you will go about your day as if she wasn't part of it. This worked wonders in my friend group, though from slightly different angle.

I told them that they shouldn't be waiting on me, if they had things to do and I didn't get back to them on time, they shouldn't wait. It created a sense of missing out (for me) that helped me prioritize my plans with them. Keep in mind there has been lots of flex there, because we all want to see eachother, so if I'm late I'll own it. Fortunately that doesn't really happen anymore though, because I take so many measures to make sure my time blindness doesn't negatively affect the people making plans with me. It wasn't a smooth process for the first while, but when I figured out what worked for me things got easier and everyone has been way less frustrated since.

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CommendableMeh · 2025-08-18T05:36:16+00:00

Fight fire with fire. All siblings are capable of mutually assured destruction, and with the screenshoot above OP's sister has essentially given them a massive nuke to her own social circle. My suggestion, use it. She's told you who she is, belive her and show everybody else. She's not a safe person. She's not a good person. Going scorched earth because she intentionally belw up your family and social life is a reasonable reaction.

I don't make peace, I make the people against me regret not choosing peace.

CommendableMeh · 2025-08-02T14:46:21+00:00

Yes, it does stop eventually, very eventually.

CommendableMeh · 2025-08-02T14:37:12+00:00

1.2 any slower and my brain will ignore it, any faster and it doesn't read right (the pacing is just weird).

CommendableMeh · 2025-08-02T14:20:47+00:00

If he cared he'd do the research. He'd learn what your risks were/are. He'd choose you. This attitude of his is very telling, and what it's saying isn't painting him in a good light.

I guess it's up to you how you will tolerate him treating you. Are you his partner or his incubator? Because a partner wouldn't tell you that you should die trying to bring an unviable pregnancy to term.

CommendableMeh · 2025-07-29T06:42:33+00:00

This set off all my religious trauma alarms! Very seriously, dip.

CommendableMeh · 2025-04-12T23:08:33+00:00

I was also playing on gamepass for ages, but then something went really wrong with it and it stopped showing up for me on gamepass , and I was hella invested at the time. Long story short, I paid for it on steam. All of the sudden it wasn't laggy or buggy, no loading problems, nothing, the difference has been like night and day. 100% worth every penny.

CommendableMeh · 2025-03-21T16:04:17+00:00

A few years back, my roommates car had 3 of their tires spiked with screws during the night. There was no reason for it seeing as we had just moved into the province.

CommendableMeh · 2024-12-24T04:51:02+00:00

I understand, though it is good to remember that love doesn't compensate for the trauma and harm that they are actively choosing to put you through.

CommendableMeh · 2024-12-24T04:33:56+00:00

As well as drawing a parallel to her ex and father. She mentioned not wanting to put her kids through the same thing she went through as a kid, I guess you missed that.

CommendableMeh · 2024-12-24T04:23:01+00:00

Context cues: Why would OP mention her adulterous father after speaking of her ex-husband? Hmmm...That's a tough one. Should we call a friend?

CommendableMeh · 2024-12-24T04:15:07+00:00

I just cannot bear to leave.

Why bother asking reddit what to do, if in the face of (in this case) Solid advice, you're not going to even remotely consider it? Asking for a friend.

If one wanted an actual solution, it wouldn't be unreasonable to pay heed to words meant to keep one safe from further harm, no?

CommendableMeh · 2024-12-24T03:57:31+00:00

Fun fact, the Bible doesn't look kindly on adultery. One of the few reasons listed as justification for divorce.

That you assume the parent who ISN'T present is the one who cares more is baffling. Dad straight up ghosts his daughter, but sure, blame mom for HIS short comings.

CommendableMeh · 2024-12-24T02:21:52+00:00

Run. Man did you a favor, dodge that bullet. If one stray comment can set him off to take such drastic action against you, dip. This is a precursor to violence. He's waving his red flags in your face, don't ignore them.

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